Love help: me and my ex have been talking to each other and it seems to go ok.

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me and my ex have been talking to each other and it seems to go ok.

she has a new bf and i can respect that even tho we dated for 4 years and she was able to get a new bf on the day we broke up. than one day i guess i started saying things like how if i had one week with her i would take her to the beach so we can have a nice romantic stroll down the shoreline and than later have a nice candle like dinner… she said i can do better and blah blah blah like trying to help me move on i guess… even tho she hurt me i still love her than later we talked and she left saying ” ill be right back i got to go think” when i told her those things about me having one last week with her… she was gone for at least 2 hours and she came back online we started talkng it was ok so far after awhile i asked her “so what did you have to think about”? she didnt respond so i changed the topic and she responded, i waited at least 40 to 45 min so i ask the same question and made sure she was there and yet still no response for that question… (the question was what did you have to think about)

anyone have any idea what she could have thought about ? or why she would avoid this question ?

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

She was clearing thinking about you and her, but doesn’t want to share the information.

Hope you figure it out, but maybe shes right, maybe you can do better. Would the relationship really be as fulfilling as it may seem right now?

The grass is always greener my friend. Just be careful. You mentioned she hurt you. I don’t know how, but i’d really say be careful and perhaps you need to go and have a serious think about what you want. There are plenty of fish in the sea. And could love and care for you the way you deserve.

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1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

i guess thanks i kinda thot she was thinking about me but i guess i just needed a 2nd opionion. i just wish she would tell me but ill give her time.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

I think by her silence that said it all. She has obviously moved on with her new boyfriend. I think you will have to accept the fact, that at most, she will be your friend. Hoping for anything more, will only be wishful thinking on your part. Like you said, she didn’t waste any time replacing you. Due to that fact, I think you’d be better off trying to find someone who will appreciate you, with all your romantic thoughts and all. Her loss, and someone else’s gain the way I see it. Hold out for the one who will always be there for you, and not leave you at the drop of a hat.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

call her on it, tell her to stop avoiding it and to answer

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1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

alright thanks for the tip this will help me think about my future anyways im still young and have my life ahead of me. I just hope she will be ok thats all i care about i just dont want her to get hurt since the guy she is dating she never met personally … they met on an online video game

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

GEESH! She left you for someone online? Wow! No wonder you are concerned about her getting hurt. Some people however have to learn the hard way. Hope that isn’t the case for her. What will be will be I suppose. You sound like a good guy. I’m sure all that you deserve will come to you one day soon. Best of luck to you :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (30 minutes after post)

thanks i hope my heartache will heal and sooner or later i can move on with my life

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (37 minutes after post)

I have a feeling you won’t be alone for long. Someone will appreciate all that you have to offer I’m sure. Unfortunately it wasn’t the one you hoped for. It takes a new love to forget the old. Just be sure the new one is into you, and not online gamers :(

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