Year help: sometimes you find yourself loving someone else and years go - Help.com

Sometimes, but half the time it’s their lost anyway, because they leave when they could had stayed with someone great and most of the time they don’t always find someone better.

The sad fact is we live and learn. Sadly most go around with their heart on their sleeve and get it crushed in the end. Indeed it hurts to think you gave your all to a relationship, only to find out it was all in vain.We can either choose to learn from our negative experiences and try not to repeat them, or carry on the same as before and get the same results. You know now that love isn’t always returned. Knowing this, you hopefully will be the wiser in your next relationship. Just be sure your not the only one giving, as love is give and take for both involved. Best of luck to you :)

simply put its made me very cautious and finding someone else just as hard i have met a few and enjoyed the great confersations though finding trust is very hard i know everyone is their own person but those words are hard to except

thats exactly how I am feeling right now…I was in love with my ex….we dated for 5 years and then he broke up with me…he told me he didnt love me the way I love him and left….I then found out that he has been feeling this way for years :( and I am so angry because he never told me how he felt…he just stayed in the relationship…i dont know why…but what he did was so mean and heartless….I dont know why he did it…and I will probably never find out….its only been a month and I am still depressed over the whole thing…he already found someone new and I cant even imagine moving on…but he never loved me…I was the only one in the relationship…and it sucks….but you will feel better…i will feel better…all we need is time….feel better

yes i suppose one day we will , i was married to her for 17 years and just because i fell ill she made every excuse to get rid of me , like i was a burden , twice she had cancer and i went to all ends to help her get rid of it , she never had to work or anything i done it all now she tells her tales to make it easyer for herself but everyone knows , she never goes around my friends and family and her thing is to convence my children i am something that i am not

I am so sorry :( I hope everything is ok with your health…If you ever need to talk I am here…I know its really hard but you will be ok….just be strong and try to stay positive

This is terrible. You were there for her, and she isn’t for you! Through sickness and in health are the vows. Some people are only there as in your case, when all is going well. This is so heartless of her. The children are innocent, and should not have to take sides, and be negatively influenced by their mom. Keep the faith, that all will improve, and I truely wish you all the best :)