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(>'')>~~~Kyle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

Well, i only read the first paragraph, but i would tell him to f*** off. I’m a guy, and if i was after a girl that is trying to ignore my interest, i’d rather her just crush me like that so i can move on and forget.

SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

Kyle_01 wrote:
Well, i only read the first paragraph, but i would tell him to f*** off. I’m a guy, and if i was after a girl that is trying to ignore my interest, i’d rather her just crush me like that so i can move on and forget.

I can’t do that b/c I’m way too nice…but I like that answer

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(>'')>~~~Kyle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

SingerInPurple wrote:

Kyle_01 wrote:
Well, i only read the first paragraph, but i would tell him to f*** off. I’m a guy, and if i was after a girl that is trying to ignore my interest, i’d rather her just crush me like that so i can move on and forget.

I can’t do that b/c I’m way too nice…but I like that answer

Coming from a guy, it’s what i’d like to hear so i don’t go fooling myself lol. Glad u liked the answer, i don’t feel like i give out very useful info often lol

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

Kyle_01 wrote:

SingerInPurple wrote:
Kyle_01 wrote:
Well, i only read the first paragraph, but i would tell him to f*** off. I’m a guy, and if i was after a girl that is trying to ignore my interest, i’d rather her just crush me like that so i can move on and forget.
I can’t do that b/c I’m way too nice…but I like that answer
Coming from a guy, it’s what i’d like to hear so i don’t go fooling myself lol. Glad u liked the answer, i don’t feel like i give out very useful info often lol

Don’t you have any confidence? That is some of the best advice I’ve got concerning guys! It’s just that I really don’t want a boyfriend, and I told him that last year, and I’m not the type of girl that just hooks up with guys…so what could he possibly want? Maybe he wants to be my friend…i guess I’m ok with that…idk

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(>'')>~~~Kyle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

SingerInPurple wrote:

Kyle_01 wrote:
SingerInPurple wrote:
Kyle_01 wrote:
Well, i only read the first paragraph, but i would tell him to f*** off. I’m a guy, and if i was after a girl that is trying to ignore my interest, i’d rather her just crush me like that so i can move on and forget.
I can’t do that b/c I’m way too nice…but I like that answer
Coming from a guy, it’s what i’d like to hear so i don’t go fooling myself lol. Glad u liked the answer, i don’t feel like i give out very useful info often lol
Don’t you have any confidence? That is some of the best advice I’ve got concerning guys! It’s just that I really don’t want a boyfriend, and I told him that last year, and I’m not the type of girl that just hooks up with guys…so what could he possibly want? Maybe he wants to be my friend…i guess I’m ok with that…idk

Lol, he could possibly want you back, or like u said, he could want you as a friend. But for me, a guy who has never had a girl as a friend and i’m already 16, id find it hard to differentiate between friend and my love lol.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

Kyle_01 wrote:

SingerInPurple wrote:
Kyle_01 wrote:
SingerInPurple wrote:
Kyle_01 wrote:
Well, i only read the first paragraph, but i would tell him to f*** off. I’m a guy, and if i was after a girl that is trying to ignore my interest, i’d rather her just crush me like that so i can move on and forget.
I can’t do that b/c I’m way too nice…but I like that answer
Coming from a guy, it’s what i’d like to hear so i don’t go fooling myself lol. Glad u liked the answer, i don’t feel like i give out very useful info often lol
Don’t you have any confidence? That is some of the best advice I’ve got concerning guys! It’s just that I really don’t want a boyfriend, and I told him that last year, and I’m not the type of girl that just hooks up with guys…so what could he possibly want? Maybe he wants to be my friend…i guess I’m ok with that…idk
Lol, he could possibly want you back, or like u said, he could want you as a friend. But for me, a guy who has never had a girl as a friend and i’m already 16, id find it hard to differentiate between friend and my love lol.

you just need some more experience! go get some experienced!

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What does he want? I was in line for lunch the other day, and this kid that I went on a couple dates with last year, but never really did any thing with comes up and stands a couple inchesinch to my right (lets call him red)….it was really wierd because you’re supposed to stand behind the person in front of you, but he was just like standing there and staring at me… I pretended I couldn’t see him, and I just kept talking to the girl in front of me. Then he starts getting really close to me when he finally moves behind me in the lunch line, and it was kinda wierd, so I started to hold my tray behind my back to get some distance…and then eventually he says hi. I should mention that there were two lines, yet he gets in the one behind me. XP I wish he would just go away!

Anyway, later that day, this other guy comes up to me and hugs me and I’m like “haha dude, you know I think hugs are over rated” (I don’t, but it’s what I say when I don’t want a hug…long story) anyway, so I see the red looking at me through the corner of my eye, and then he looks away when he sees the other boy hugging me. Then as soon as the other boy goes away, he comes and stands next to me. Nothing happened because I “went to the bathroom” after a minute, but idk what is going on…

Please tell me I’m over reacting….
The worst part about all of this is that every time I see him in an isolated environment, where it’s just me and him, my heart starts to race XP That just makes me really mad! Like, I can’t even explain….I really don’t want to be his friend right now…

it’s not like he likes me or anything….he’s made out with like a billion girls since last year…I honestly don’t mind it at all. I’ve moved on guy wise, but what the heck is wrong with me???

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