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would you leave your real life boyfriend for someone you met online

reason why you left your ex (real) life bf was because he treated you bad but only on the computer like critisize you on what your doing in a video game but in public he treats you with respect

or a guy you met online because he treats you well and is very sweet to you

my ex left me cause i guess i didnt appreciate her enough

so she found someone who did

they never met personally and he only lives about 3 hours away

do you think ill have a chance to win her back even tho she has a new bf or is she just going through a phase or is he just someone for her to bounce back up so she doesnt have to go through the lost of her bf

i want her back more than ever i started changing alot since the past few days… i stoped playing video games and started to execersise practice and learn new songs on my guitar… i just need some advice on what to do the only time i can talk to her is on that video game cause thats where she met the guy

or is it best to just forget her

i dont want to forget cause it hurts me inside but if thats the choice i have to take since there is no point in winning her heart than so be it.

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Joy. offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (2 minutes after post)

What exactly are you asking?

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lock90 offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (4 minutes after post)

should i move on and forget about her or should i try to find a way for her to take me back

she only knows the guy in a online game

and i see her mostly every week

i dont no if i should like try to get with her or try to make her feel special

we still talk but hardly

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Joy. offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (9 minutes after post)

why did you two brake up?

I met my boyfriend online so I think its a great way to meet someone new. but does this guy live near where you two? Like would she ever actually meet him in person.

I think you should just try and talk to her and ask if she still has feelings for you.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (20 minutes after post)

personally im not into the whole getting a bf/gf online because i dont think u can really get to know someone that way… but each to their own. if u really want her back though do some thing really special for her… and tell her u realised ur mistake and u want to change for u her and tell her that u do appriecate her and want one more chance to make her feel special

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (23 minutes after post)

i tried to make her feel special

so far i bought her a ring

she took it but then i saw it in her eyes that she was sad so she gave it back to me because i guess she wants to know for sure i will change

now im practicing my guitar and trying to write her a song that will make her heart melt i just hope it will work i just dont know how to write a song

i just dont want her to feel awkward

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Joy. offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (24 minutes after post)

why did u brake up

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lock90 offline Verified User (8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (25 minutes after post)

we broke up cause we didnt get along in a video game =\

honestly i never thought i was critizing her in what she was doing cause i did that with all my friends… like the game we play is World of Warcraft she met the guy on that game she got to know him and bam she likes him and suddenly stoped loving me

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (27 minutes after post)

well dont try to hard.. you should know when its time to give up. writing a song shows her that u care enough to spend time on her. and obvs u will be writing words from your heart…. and a bit of advice on the song writing, write the lyrics and melody first, and the guitar can fit in around that
good luck

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Joy. offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (30 minutes after post)

omg…

im not gonna lie..WoW is pretty cool when you first start playing it but I personaly got bored with it within a month of playing it, i like the warcraft III better..

thats kind of a stupid reason to brake up, it sounds like she wanted to find any little thing to brake up with you over.
maybe you should just try and move on, because im sure shes never going to meet that guy in person and sooner or later shes going to want a actuall person to be with then she will realize how stupid she was.

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Norris offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (34 minutes after post)

If I were you I dunno what I’d do to be honest, probably just walk away but that’s clearly not what you want. If you are gonna make a go of it you don’t have to go to great lengths to make her feel special (ring/song) you’ve just gotta be nice to her. You know polite and modest like. Good luck and stuff anyways.

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An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (37 minutes after post)

maybe you could make a new account on WoW and talk to her:) and get her to ‘fall in love’ with your person and then be like see you still love me!!!

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Norris offline Verified User (8 months, 2 weeks) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (40 minutes after post)

With respect the last poster your suggestion sounded creepy as hell! Being open and honest is important. If you pull something like that it could seriously backfire.

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Joy. offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 4 weeks ago (43 minutes after post)

lol yeah but i bet it would work with this chick…I mean if she fell in love with an avatar..

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