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There is a girl that I see on the bus almost every

day I want to talk to her but don’t know how sometimes she is reading or she is talking to a friend for the most part i have asked quite a few people now but I still haven’t really gotten a clear answer on what should I do or say I am a shy person and going up to here kind of seems weird.

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dazzle_p_ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

its hard to talk to some one u dont know especially when u are shy. but after u have made that first leap u will look back and wonder y it seemed so hard. just look for a good opening about something u know u can keep a convosation going with and u’ll be fine :)

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mojgh offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

I agree with dazzle_p_. See, if you can find out what she is reading and make a nice comment about that. Is she younger or loder than you are?

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coodela offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

just do it. WHats the worst that could happen?

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dazzle_p_ offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

mojgh wrote:
I agree with dazzle_p_. See, if you can find out what she is reading and make a nice comment about that. Is she younger or loder than you are?

oooooooooh good plan…. i didnt think of that… thats an awsome idea

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mojgh offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

Good luck!

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Norris offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

I reckon go for it. If it goes a bit pear shaped sure you’ll feel pretty awkward for a while but hold your head up and it’ll pass soon enough. All you’ve really gotta do is be nice to her. Just ask her for the time or something and you never know she might have been awkwardly looking at you for a while thinking exactly the same thing. Good luck friend.

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Cannonball Girl offline Verified User (2 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Susanville, CA, US | 1 year ago (46 minutes after post)

get a seat behind her, in front of her, on the opposite seat, whatever, etc. if she’s reading, ask her what shes reading, what its about..if its nothing you can comment on say “well i’m into reading blah blah blah” or tell her how impressive it is that she can read when its so noisy on the bus or something of the like.
keep talking to her

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