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hmmm not meaning to sound annoying but how old ru both?

both 17

i was 17 when i got together with my first serious boyfriend, it could be for a lot of reasons, u can either ask her about it, and if she brushes it off as nothing, dont take it and ignore her for a while, see how she likes it, or dont speak to her about it and dont contact her for a while, they r ur two best options, honest, but if u do do the ignoring thing, make sure u dont try to contact her at all and if she does contact u, jus be nice and friendly but dont talk about anything to do with both of u, honest this will work one way or another!

Have you talked to her about it?

No ive not talked to her about it.

Without wanting to scare you I had exactly the same experience and a week later she was cheating on me with two people! To be honest I think you need to be up front about it. If you leave it you’ll eventually grow apart which isn’t good. Good luck though like!

Then do it…tell her what you think…and ask her what she thinks, or what’s happening…

she’s not the sorta person who will be cheating on me with a guy in a week. she’s not like that.

2511 i would find it uncomfortable having such a chat with her. but i guess its the only way. how would i approach it? would i come straight out and ask her ” we she was avoiding me” for example? might seem a bit hasty

“why was she avoiding me” i meant to say*

Well, if you want to know what’s going on, you need to know her point of view…
Just tell her that there’s something that you don’t like or that is bothering you…

I am having the same thing with my girlfriend (well maybe x by now). She has been avoiding me and she doesn’t return txts or emails. It sounds like she is just scared. I asked my gf is she wanted to break up but she said something like “she isn’t sure…”. i’m telling you, you gotta move on, it’s just devastating trying to figure out what’s wrong which is obviously on her part.

If you see her say hello or greet her nicely, don’t ignore her just because you’re angry at her behavior. be nice. and move on. good luck!