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I don’t know what to do, and I’m stuck.

It’s a pretty long and confusing story but here it goes..
Okay, there is this guy that likes me and I like him. Or used to. I don’t like him anymore since 2 days ago, and I have no idea why.. We aren’t going out or anything. But in the past week, I’ve felt really different, not like myself. I can’t think straight or anything. I felt just horrible about every single thing. He still likes me and I can’t really get him to think “just friends”. Because that’s all I want to be. I have dropped many hints about the just friends thing, but I guess he likes me too much to let me go. Okay, here is the problem, kind of.. There is this one guy say.. guy number 2. I can’t seem to forget about guy number 2. I believed that he’s in the way. I don’t know what to do! Guy number one is much more better, and guy number 2 is the not serious guy type. But i like guy number 2. He flirts with a lot of girls and I think he used to like me at some point in our friendship. I got the feeling that he liked me about 4 months ago because he always stared at me and says Hi to me everyday. To this day.. 6 months have past since I’ve known him, he still says Hi to me first every single time whenever he sees me look at him. It feels so right when I talk to guy number 2, but with number one, it’s been very awkward.. and I just don’t want him in my life anymore. But how can I do that without hurting him? What should I do about guy number 2 also? Please Help.

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berta offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (33 minutes after post)

it sounds like you want what you can’t have since you said that guy 2 wasn’t the serious type, but if you really are done with guy 1 there is no right time to say goodbye you just gotta do it. prolonging it may make the situation worse and hurt him more

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candycouupo offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (36 minutes after post)

guy number 2 is just a friend. but i’d like to get to know him better and hope that he’ll like me someday. i’m not expecting. just saying.

and what should i do about the first guy?

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berta offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year, 4 months ago (41 minutes after post)

let him go if you don’t wanna be with him. you need to be straight forward and strong.

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pixo12 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 1 week ago (6 months after post)

If You dont wanna be with him then you dont have to .:)
i had this situiation the other day . i nearly got my **** kicked . but you go where your heart goes. are you too close?. if you are then you could say . if we went out and split up we’d wreak our friendship it wont be the same . i’d prefer us being friends becuase i just dont think i want a boyfriend or like someone like that yet . or be straight with him =]

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