life help: woke up one day and realized that i had no one that even cared if i lived or died. - Help.com

woke up one day and realized that i had no one that even cared if i lived or died.

lots of people out there who owe me money and wont answer my calls. tried very hard all my life to help everyone and now i realize that everyone took my kindness as weakness and dont care that i am homeless, penniless, carless and hopeless.

This open post was written 1 year ago | V/U/S: 211, 10, 8 | Edit Post | Leave a reply | Subscribe to Replies | Report Post


Reciprocity (0) Reciprocation Failure -- The poster has NOT helped anyone else yet!

Since writing this post irishone5 may have helped people, but has not within the last 4 days. irishone5 is a verified member, has been around for 1 year and has 1 posts and 0 replies to their name.

Post Tags (10)

Replies (10)

Where were you?

Click and drag to move the map around. FAQ: How we place people on this map »
You can also watch events on Help.com as they happenDisable Post Maps or Hide Yourself
Mouse over the map for 2 seconds to see an expanded, interactive view

tonyschick offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

aw im sry, but dieing isnt the answer, If you ever need a friend… “Hello, I’m Lola” wats your name?

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Fat.
elusive_creature offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

Life has its ups and downs and i understand whats its like to be taken advantage of from my kindness and it almost put me out on the streets but i just kept on going forward making my mark in life and trying my best cuz in the end thats all we can do

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Moon
mjf41 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

I care about you and I know that there are lots of others that do to. We probably do’nt live nearby but caring for one another can be done long distance. Don’t know your religious beliefs, I am a Christian and find comfort in my belief that God loves us all even with all our imperfections. AND WOW I am full of imperfections! If you are not a Christian, try looking to someone of your own faith and I hope you will find comfort with that. Try volunteering and helping others, I have found that when I help others that don’t have anything, it makes me feel better and makes me relize how lucky I am even with the problems I am facing. Giving back to others is such good feeling. It seems there is always someone out there with more problems than I can even imagine.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Anonymous #
1 year ago (44 minutes after post)

I remember when Kurt Cobain died. A lot of people cared. But not for very long.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
elusive_creature offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (45 minutes after post)

well anon, what if your family member died or you best friend died. Would you care for a long time? Im sure that kurts close friends still care and still miss him cause they knew him on a personal level

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Moon
elusive_creature offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (46 minutes after post)

Irishone people will care you may not think so but people do care this website is here to help you cuz there are people that care just remember that

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Help me with: Moon
seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (51 minutes after post)

I care also! You are to be admired for all your kind qualities. This world has two types of people,the givers and the takers. You were sadly taken advantage of by the takers of this world. Be proud of your giving qualities, but learn from your mistakes.Please check into all the help made available to persons in your situation. Church organizations such as Catholic Charities for one has many programs and resources that can really assist you.Also the Ymca and The Salvation Army also can help. You have a right to feel sad and low, however, keep strong and positive as there is help out there. You deserve only the best, and I will pray you get it. Please take care and know that you are not alone. We all care!!! :)

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
mojgh offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 0 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Ahhwww, I’m so sorry to hear that. I care for you. Don’t give up. I agree with seas light and mjf41. Does are good advice. I am not in a very good place myself right now, but the comments on your question helped me a bit too. You see, you helped one more person with your question. Cheer up and lets think there is a reason and a propose for each one of us. Amy Smith

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators
Smiles81 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 Add Friend #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

Dont give up. I care the people above me care. Im willing to bet there are people who care about you that you dont know of. I wish i had something better to say, just remember people DO care.

Quote this reply Report this reply to moderators

Post as sanjayrestle200 (No? Logout)

Invite Others to Help

Don't know the answer to this post, but know someone who might? Invite them to reply!

  • We send them a link to this post with your message and a post excerpt
  • We will NEVER use their email for anything else
  • Your invitation message is confidential
  • When your friend visits from the email, you'll be automatically joined on your Friends lists!
  • We still forward a link for your post to the post author and any repliers, just like if you had replied to the post yourself.

Your friend must be 13 or older to participate