I feel taken advantage of.
tell me if I’m making this a bigger deal than it is. On facebook my ex fiance/was current best friend and confidant had a picture up of him and I. today his new girlfriend commented on it, “and I have nothing to worry about? right…” I commented back telling her she has nothing to worry about, he’s all hers. in other words trying to reassure her that I’m not going to try to steal him back. so later today while I’m at work he calls me and accuses me of being snide. I was so angry with him that I didn’t really know what to say. I’ve analyzed this anger all day and decided that I’m mad for a varying number of reasons. here’s my rant:
the fact that she had the nerve to but into something that is obviously in the past and when I reply cordially she freaks out and I have to hear about it. If they have a problem it’s their problem, not mine. hat he has so little respect for me that he has to blame some issue in which I didn’t even do anything wrong on me. that he doesn’t know me better and know that I don’t stab people in the back, I am straight forward and honest… to your face.
so I finally texted him because he didn’t want to talk on the phone. I told him that he really hurt my feelings. no response all day. when I came home from work and checked my facebook she had written me. his girlfriend. Now I’m mad. All of this drama over one comment where I thought I was being nice and accommodating. here’s what she had written: thanks for your approval… didnt no i needed one… considering you love with him more than anything that alone makes it kinda hard to believe you one that one…
here’s my response: I don’t know you and you don’t know me. Chris however knows that I am always straight forward. At least I believe have not given him reason to think otherwise. I was actually being sincere and trying to reassuring to you since you seemed to be questioning the relationship between us in the comment you left. I have loved Chris just as much as you do now, as much as you will in six months.
As you can imagine it makes me uncomfortable to know that some stranger knows about all of my insecurities and life crisis, and I know nothing of hers. All I can see is that you make Chris as happy as I once did. Hell yes that makes me jealous. This is the man I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with and have my children with. All I wanted was to reassure you that I don’t want him back. I have enough experience with woman stabbing me in the back that i at least have enough respect to not do so to others.
My sister is beckoning me, if there is anything else I can help you with feel free to message me.
He then proceeded to delete or remove himself from all pictures either of us had up. This also hurts my feelings and angers me. I feel like he is being a coward and that he has no respect for me as a person or appreciation for our relationship.
What should I do? I feel like I am going insane (again) in my own head with this over and over again.
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