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Ok, Im 14 years old and I’ve never been kissed or even had a boyfriend!

I want one really bad, but guys dont seem to like me all that nuch. I dont know whats wrong with me. People tell me I’m pretty, and people tell me that I have a great personality. Some of my friends say that im too picky. But the only main standerds i have are:
1.Has to be my age or older
2.Has to me my height or taller
3.Cant be an internet relationship

Those are my main standerds. Can someone please help me?

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❤ℓινιηgJst4u offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 146 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Great ..then it can’t me

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pluto_goddes offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

Thats not too tough of standards. I was the same as you, not until i STOPPED looking for a boyfriend did i really find anything. You’re 14, you still have PLEANTY of time. just don’t focus on only that and maybe you’ll find one. Just be happy with yourself and eventually you’ll get something you want.You could also be missing signs from some boys. Just make some guy friends, hang out some time and enjoy life. You’ll find someone i promise

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

I think you are too young to think something abt it.
TRy to concentrate on your studies.
When u grow, you sure find someone .

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ma3m3 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

I know how you feel. I’m 16, and that’s how I was at 14. But really, in high school age, you shouldn’t be looking for a boyfriend. Sure you see many people close to you have boyfriends, and it may make you jealous, but really, it’s not a very good idea. I suggest you date around, taste different flavors, and see what kind of people you really like. It’s so much more fun when you’re dating to have fun and not to find someone steady. If you have a boyfriend, other guys won’t ask you out because they think you’re “taken,” and that will last all of high school. Trust me, I have experience with that kind of stuff. And if it’s a popularity thing, people will respect you and admire you so much more if you ARE going with a lot of guys rather than staying to a specific one. But yeah, date a lot of different kinds of people. You don’t have to worry about being loyal and committing to someone. I know what I’m talking about. Relationships don’t usually work out when they start that young.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 33 minutes after post)

become friends with guys now, and then you never know what will happen!

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 month after post)

eh my name is alaa im 14 years old something im me wants a date and the otherthing is refusing and its telling me just make a freindship with a girl i dont seem to find a girl please e mail me on : i> small>(email removed) /small> /i> i live in syria so im looking for a date in syria please if you know a girl overthere please tell her to email me

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