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Sorry, but I’m asking this again because I’d REALLY appreciate a few more opinions.

There’s this boy in my art class who I really like, and I think he likes me. I catch him looking at me multiple times each class, and I have recently begun looking back. Then we’ll have almost a staring contest, until one of us blushes and looks away (usually me). Also, he walks right by me when he has to get to his table, instead of using a more direct route. We don’t talk so often, cuz he seems to be a pretty shy guy and I get tongue-tied whenever I try to think of something to say, but he’ll occasionally listen in on my conversations with my friends (he sits at the table in front of mine) and then he’ll say something really cute. The other day I was asking my friends at my table if any of them could help me with my Spanish homework and he was like, “oh, maybe I can help you” and then he proceeded to come over to my table and try to help me. But we also can go days without saying a word to each other. Oh, and the other day we were cleaning up at the end of class and he was leaning over, looking for something on a low shelf, while I was looking for something on a higher shelf, and as I leaned over to look on the shelf, I purposely pressed my leg gently into his back to see what his reaction would be, and he didn’t move away or protest. Is he interested?

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range offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

i agree, i really do think he likes me, but i just really want to be sure because i have thought a guy has liked me and have been totally off the mark before :( i dont want to screw this one up

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Time Traveller offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

He doesn’t know you that well he might only like you a bit and will like you more over time.

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Falmouth, C6, GB | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

I think yes, he does. Even if it turns out he doesn’t, I’m pretty sure that making a move and being wrong is better than never knowing the truth.

I really hope it goes ok with him :)

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

Oh hes interested alright.

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SingerInPurple offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

I would think so…staring contests mean buisness!

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mumstheword offline Verified User (1 year, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 16 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 46 minutes after post)

Ask him!

Why waste time wondering?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 hours, 28 minutes after post)

he is totally into u by the sounds of it… get talking to him and see if he wants to do some thing with u at the weekend or something

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1 year ago (6 hours, 41 minutes after post)

Definitely. You guys are totally in to each other, in my opinion. I think you should ask him out first(make a move) since he seems like a quite shy guy. Don’t lose him to another girl, alright?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 days, 4 hours after post)

well actually the guy is shy to ask you out so if he doesn’t stand up for himself maybe you should

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