life help: My mom and Step-dad have been 2gether b4 i was born But about a year ago he was caught cheating on her.

Queenlala64

My mom and Step-dad have been 2gether b4 i was born But about a year ago he was caught cheating on her.

I hate his guts for it…..Is that ok? I have always called him dad and now im getting into the habit of calling him James…his real name. iS THAT OK? MY LIFE IS SO HARD NOW…I HATE MY DADS GF. I DREAM ABOUT KILLING HER I HATE HER SO BAD! IS THAT OKAY???

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Its ok to feel bad about this . If you want to call your dad james , its ok. I think you should seek out help with your feelings. ask a teacher, an older friend, your doctor. You need help with this right now. its hard dealing with the feelings when you are confused and alone. take care of yourself and maybe when you need help, ask your mom. let her know how you feel too.

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An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (9 minutes after post)

I am sorry you having to deal with this. It is a very difficult possition to be in. I am sure your step dad did not mean to hurt you. Adults sometimes make big mistakes that hurts the ones that love them. Be there for your mom, and give this some time, talk ro your mom about your feelings.

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An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (21 minutes after post)

It’s okay to feel that way as long as you don’t do it (kill the girlfriend, I mean) What your stepdad did is screwed up and effects the whole family, and since either you found out or they felt it necessary to involve you in their issues you csn call him anything you want to, in my opinion. How did you find out? Did they tell you?

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Queenlala64 7 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (29 minutes after post)

they told my brothers and i that they where going to get a divcorce. My mom never wanted it and still doesnt. My dad…or James…..hurts us kids to hurt my mom. He knows it hurts her to see us in pain. I dont get to see any of the family on his side. Part of me wants to…but part of me says screw them…..crap…..lightning….im going to have to turn the computer off soon.

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An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

im so sorry about your familey it is very hard thing to have to deal with i am very sorry for you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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