it all depends on the way you put yourself out there for people to talk to..
Could be that you went through some hard times when you were younger and made it so you don’t trust anyone with the real you so you end up pushing people away if they get too close.
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This is your perception only. A distortition of yourself. I’m sure you are not repulsive and you have many great things to offer others in this world. Anti- christ NO!!! :)
You say you repel people, but look, you alredy have 4 running to help. Tell us whats up. We are all here to help. There is surely some underlying cause as to your thoughts.
i mean really, like i feel as though people will avoid me, not just to talk but for physical contact, eye contact, seat next to me on the bus, anything! i dont think its all in my head…
seas light wrote:
This is your perception only. A distortition of yourself. I’m sure you are not repulsive and you have many great things to offer others in this world. Anti- christ NO!!! :)
agreed.. if you repelled people, you wouldnt have friends.. and we wouldnt be trying to help ya out..
but maybe some people are just blind to my horribleness. maybe im pure evil and have just learned any behaviour that makes me seem kind and moral… like i give off pure evil energy… eugh.
Mebbie you need to examine yourself and your behavior. Dont beat yourself up but just look at yourself(who you are) and see if you can make any changes(ex: I talk too loud, I have a temper, I manipulate people, whatever) we all do things we don’t realize
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Sometimes people are just as shy as you are to be the first one to talk, or to sit beside someone they dopn’t know. If you make the first move, I’m sure you won’t be rejected. A nice smile in someone’s direction can really beak the ice to start up a conversation.Sometimes you hae to exert yourself to let others know you want to become friends. Why not give it a try. What is the worst that can happen? Nothing that your not already feeling, so go for it. Hopefully you might be pleasing surprised, to find that they are more then willing to accept your friendship. :)
you sound like you need to just get out there and talk to people.
try talking first, don’t wait for them
why do you insist that you’re evil? im sure you arent and you just see yourself in a different light than everyone else does. i could be low self-esteem.. go out and meet new people, it always helps me..
dabajama wrote:
Mebbie you need to examine yourself and your behavior. Dont beat yourself up but just look at yourself(who you are) and see if you can make any changes(ex: I talk too loud, I have a temper, I manipulate people, whatever) we all do things we don’t realize
exactly, im impatient, a bad speller, and i have a bad attitude sometimes.
laura1321412 wrote:
but maybe some people are just blind to my horribleness. maybe im pure evil and have just learned any behaviour that makes me seem kind and moral… like i give off pure evil energy… eugh.
if that was the case then you wouldn’t have helped me in my thread. The very fact that you wanted to help shows you’re a nice person!
see? we all believe in you..like i said, you’re just seeing yourself in a different light as everyone else.. we think you’re great..
Reality is in the eye of the beholder. If you feel that you repel people, then it is true. Be optomistic. You are a fun person to be around, and if anyone doesnt see that its their loss.
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Who do you trust?
Interesting…
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