im dead inside i feel numb i cant cry anymore i give
up on everything
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don’t know if that will help you. but you’re not alone, and maybe, my situation is worse.
I’m sorry you feel lost and so depressed. Sometimes it helps to talk about it. I’m here if you want to. Maybe me and others can help you.
and the only thing that keeps you going is the hope that someday hapiness will find you. I feel the same way. Well for me, I KNOW it will. I would suggest to get a shrink. But it has to be a good one. I’ve tried so many ones before the one that is helping today.
i think if you can share some more details ppl would really try to help you threw this
screw shrink we are far better at least we really listen and want to help ^_^
why not?
you don’t have to tell them the whole story… just tell’em your are to confused with yoursefl and you really want some professional help. Why wouldn’t that work?
http://www.kidica.com/raising-childre… Here is a link for you to get online support to help you understand your feelings and how to cope with them. You need to talk to someone who can assist you.
I think both are good. I always come here when I’m sad. But I’m just saying from my experience. I’ve been in a dark room for many years now. I’m still there, but I can finally see the exit door, and guess who pointed me?
deff go look for a shrink. and just so you know, fat and ugly is not forever. You can change that
i need you 2 care wrote:
ok well as i said im 13 and im a girl and im bi my friend Toni*she is a girl* is in love with me and wants to go out with me and she likes a guy to and she wants to go out with him to and i think its unethical of me to date them both and i dont like her like that because im in love with my best friend Freddie and i dont think he likes me at all i mean im fat and ugly and mean and not worth the time of day and i have recently started to cut myself again and im lost and confused and i dont know what to do i mean im in love with him but he is way to good for me im scum fat ugly scum
Sigh….that is a tangle.
But you’re not ugly. You may be overweight, but that doesn’t make someone ugly. You choose whether or not to be mean, so that doesn’t have to be an issue if you don’t let it.
Cutting yourself is a real problem, and for that you need real, professional help. The school counsellor is probably your best bet. Tell him or her what’s going on, and tell your parents, too. Make sure they understand you need to see a doctor -any doctor.
You are valued and someone’s out side apperance is just that. What matters is a person’s inside and how they care about people. I’m sure your beauty is on the outside and the inside. No one is better then anyone else. You need to love yourself. Until you do, no one else will.. You then will project a confidence about yourself which is far better then the outer beauty, as beauty fades, dumb is forever. Your not dumb, just depressed. There is help with dealing with depression. you have to want the help. Don’t be your own worse enemey :(
sorry to diss, but your parents are retarded. stick to what I said. Find some excuse to tell’em u need a shrink
Wow. Awesome hair, and beautiful teeth. I knew you weren’t ugly. I could tell by the way you write. You’re just as beautiful as my daughters.
No, they will not hate you. But if they do, you have choices. You don’t have to live with their bad decisions. If they kick you out, you have places to go, and there you WILL get the help you need.
k…come on they can’t be THAT bad. tell them you mind very confused
and yeah… you’re certainly not ugly. I mean… I would deff hit on you.
Everyone gets depressed from time to time. You need help on coping tell them as you are vwery young. surely they won’t deny you help with depression would they? No one is perfect not even them. I seen your profile. you are very pretty and a cheerleader . They are never ugly :)
My mom passed away eight days ago. She was battling cancer and I moved here last year to care for her. While she was hospitalized and in hospice I was hysterical and emotional. She died with me, holding my hand as I stroked her hair and I begged her to leave, promising that I wuould take care of myself.
I am normally a very emotional person but have felt numb for about six days. I can’t cry. I can’t laugh. I feel like I’m on autopilot. I have to empty out my mother’s and my apartment and get rid of her things. I also have found things she left behind like journals and photos that would normally have moved me to an emotional explosion but I’m numb.
Is this normal? Am I suddenly going to erupt with emotion? This is totally not like me. My mom and I were VERY Close.
Yes; that’s normal. You need to recruit some other family members to help you decide what to keep from your Mom’s things, because they are all you will have left of her. If you try to do it now, you’ll either end up keeping far more than you should, or throwing away stuff you’ll regret later.
Some grief counselling might be a good idea, too. You don’t want to suddenly break down with it all hitting you at once.
I lost my mommy and I am feeling o so very sad, numb and depressed, I just miss her gentle touch, look - just her true LOVE. What am I to do ? I am completely alone and I don’t know what to do with myself. I was in college but I dropped out because when my mom passed away I just fell apart and I couldn’t focus and my mind was and still is ( maybe even more) all over the place. I don’t know what to do with my life and frankly now I am just wasting my life to the internet maybe. Ok well please help me, if you can….
-anna-
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