friends help: 25 had a short term relationship but still a virgin, looking - Help.com

Hello there, first of all welcome to help.com. I am happy to read a little bit of your story. How are you feeling?

Insecurities of your religion or color is very common especially if you live somewhere far from your origin. But that should not stop you from making friends. I have a lot of friends who are not with the same skin color as i have. I have a lot coming from different culture and religion.

You are your own person and you are unique in your own ways. No one can begin to be like you. And that alone makes you likable. :)

Which country are you living in? how long have you been there for?
Tell me if there is any word or sentence that you don’t understand :)
Its sad fact but true, that people will feel uncomfortable around you if they see you as different. Also if you are seen as being part of a community of muslim brown men then it is likely that they will think that you only want to be around people of your own culture. However there are lots of people who will be willing to meet you, maybe they will find your culture and religion interesting.
If a relationship is what you want, then try getting out more. Join a club or a sports time, go to the bar. Introduce yourself to new people.

In one sense, the world consists of two types of people: 1) Yourself, and 2) the rest.

Well, all people are unique to start with. You see kind of a similarity in others, like “the blacks” or “the whites” or “the Christians” or whatever.
They seem confident, but they are not.
Each and everyone of them is unique, and they all have their issues. Some are still virgins, some lost it with romance and intention, some “accidentally”, and some in the prison shower.
But hopefully most of them were making friends with some people, developed love and then it “just happened”.

I guess the best thing for you is to tune down the focus on your virginity, and start making a lot of friends. Then other things will happen automatically.