Money help: Needing help, 2 kids, lawsuit, bankruptcy and greedy father - Help.com

Hello, my husband has pancreatitis. He has been hospitalized twice last year because of it. I may have confused some of you. It’s his father, my father-in-law, that is greedy and who breached contract/agreement that we will get profit from share of the house we used to lived in after it was remodeled and sold. My husband paid the monthly mortgages and downpayment back to his father before they agreed to remodel (his father told him the house is my husband’s but the title remained in his dad’s name).

I am still with my husband. My values will not let me leave my husband, especially in our current situation. Our current situation has been a big stressor to us and my depression, they had affected our marriage but we are trying to work everything out. His child support is with his ex-wife. There was no way we could pay the child support when we got kicked out of the house earlier this year as I had to stop working because of my pregnancy and depression, and we had to rent a studio apartment, we had no savings as my husband worked in the house remodeling and did not get paid when it was sold. Did I also say that the state suspended my husband’s license because of this so he cannot even drive to look for work or do landscaping? Most companies need somebody with a valid driver’s license.

We are in the process of suing his dad for breach of contract but for the meantime living in dire poverty. I and my 2 kids receive WIC and thank God they are a big help but we thought we will not burden the state and get food stamps, section 8 or welfare! We are not disabled and we are not leechers, and we still manage to eat on time 3 times a day.

I am not really begging for money. I have skills, I can be a virtual secretary or transcriptionist. We also sell on ebay, some electronic stuff and intend to sell used clothes, bags, shoes and silver jewelry on Ebay. Lately, I have been getting nonpaying bidders so I decided to open up a new account just to see if the nonpaying bidders will spare me. I do not want handouts but now is not the time be proud. However, I am not an invalid, just poor and I would appreciate for anyone to just buy from me or give me virtual secretarial job or transcription job that I can do in my place so I can still be with my family, especially my newborn. But if you have anything to spare despite the recession our economy is facing, I will not turn away from your help.

I have seen pursuit of Happyness and his was a really inspiring story. I am not losing hope that we will come out of this situation, its just a matter of time. It may take long to get our money because of how the legal system is but for now, we do really need help and I am trying my best to make things work out.

Thanks Everyone.

“I do not want handouts but now is not the time be proud. However, I am not an invalid, just poor and I would appreciate for anyone to just buy from me or give me virtual secretarial job or transcription job that I can do in my place so I can still be with my family, especially my newborn. But if you have anything to spare despite the recession our economy is facing, I will not turn away from your help.”