girl help: I destroyed my relationship with a a girl i really liked

Pmpinainteasy

I destroyed my relationship with a a girl i really liked

We were in a relationship but not dating for about two months. About a couple of weeks ago people started to tell her that I was going to use her. she asked me about and I told her that i wasnt going to do that. She belived me and wated to take it slow. Then about a week later someone told her that I liked another girl that I liked earlier in the year. I told her that the girl was good looking and that she was my backup plan in the purpuse of trying to get my girl jealous. It backfired and no she wont talk to me and she supposdely likes someone else. What should I do?

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Soldier 4 you 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Dude, you messed up. You don’t say that to someone you care about. Why would you want to intentionally hurt her? I suggest you gather up some coins, buy her some white roses and chocolate and apologize to your mouth falls off. As a matter of fact go, right now.

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peaceluvsoccer 0 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

wow dude i dont know what i would do is explain that i dont want to lose u and im sorry for what i did go to her house and sing her a song!!

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Kyle777 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

your screwed…..try to talk to her.

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Pmpinainteasy 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

but she doesnt want to talk to me but i always catch her glancing at me all the time

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Kyle777 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

i did the exact same thing, except it dint back fire.

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Kyle777 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

pin her down if you have to. just talk to her no matter what.

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Pmpinainteasy 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

yea i know thats what my friend told me to say and it worked for him but not for me

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Kyle777 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

does she still like you?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

you should never try and make somone feel jealous. thats very manipulative and you i hope that this was a first time youve done this to somone and that it was a big mistake,,, or else you dont deserve her anyways.

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Pmpinainteasy 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (21 minutes after post)

it ws the first time and i dont knwo if she still likes me but i always catch her glancing at me all the time nd for some reason a couple of her friends came up to me yesterday and were like you messed up so idk

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (21 minutes after post)

wow

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

should i just let time heal everything since she wont talk to me or ask her friends to tell her to talk to me.

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Kyle777 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

time heals all injuries. ask her out.

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Soldier 4 you 4 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

Pmpinainteasy wrote:
should i just let time heal everything since she wont talk to me or ask her friends to tell her to talk to me.

F-time! Put that pride away and if you want her take her, just if she gives you a second chance think about what you do and say regarding her feelings. If i was you i would just go to her, call her w.e. ASAP. If you let time heal you might lose her to another guy. REMEMBER to apologize! A-LOT

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