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Tell her you won’t kill her… Put yourself in her shoes… she probably doesn’t think that you’ll kill her, but there’s still that little tinge of doubt that’s in the back of her mind…put her out of her misery.

i want to but she keeps bringing it up. i’ve stopped talking to her but she keeps messaging, texting, or IMing me cause she says she wants to talk about it but every time we do she mixes things up when she tells someone else so i have to retell the entire conversation. she “knows” that i wouldn’t kill anyone but she is making drama out of nothing.

Wow she must really think a lot of herself to think that you’d take time out of your day to kill her over this… I know it must be very hard not to mess with her, to not follow her sometime and pop out of the bushes. I guess you could answer by simply not killing her.

…I guess you should just leave her alone if she’s being stupid about it…and tell her to stop spreading lies about you…

hahaha exactly. everyone that knows me knows that i wouldn’t kill anyone unless there was no other way to save a family member or someone i care about, like my ex girlfriend (this is what caused the argument). she just won’t drop it even though i tried to avoid her.

just confront her about it face to face in a grown up way, she sounds crazy anyway u dont wanna make the situation worse.

i have to confront her everyday at school. she can’t get over it cause she’s mad cause me and my ex are still friends after she tried to break us up. she doesn’t want me to be around my ex and vice versa.

just keep snogging your ex in front of her she’ll quit eventually, nah , i dunno sometimes to get a girl off your back they need to know they have no chance with you, just make up a story about a new girlfriend u have outside of school n tell ur ex to go along with it.

well she has a boyfriend and me and my ex have a really good chance of getting back together just because it was her friend(the girl who think i want to kill her)’s fault we broke up. she didn’t want me to come between them.

I would stay the he** away from her. Just by doing that you will make her look like a drama queen that is enjoying all the sick attention. If you have never harmed her, or threatened too, then you have nothing to worry about. Stay away from someone that is willing to spread such a drastic rumor and hurt your standing as a decent human being. She is thrill seeking and using you as her scapegoat for her own ego, Yikes, stay away!

but what should i do when i try to avoid her but she’s in my 3 last classes of the day. i go to an accelerated program at a college for the first half of the day and then i go back to high school for lunch, history, english, and spanish. i don’t have her in my lunch but she’s in the rest of them. i cut off all communication with her after me and my ex broke up but she has continuously found me and started stuff. it just gets on my nerves that she’s doing this.

I dont blame you, it would bother me too. If it keeps up tell a counselor or threaten her with defimation of character, slander. Be sure you have not threatened her though. I would stop this toot sweet and let her know this is harrassment.

well we used to be real good friends and she used to tell me everything. i got to hear (whether i wanted to or not) everything about her and her ex while they were dating. lets just say that she’s told me enough that, if i really wanted to, i could easily cause her current boyfriend to leave her and to insure that no one would date her for the rest of high school (granted that’s only a year and half but it will be forever to her). and i’m even real good friends with her ex and that gives me another source of information about her. but that’s just it, i don’t want to have to go through this. i would like to tell her that i forgive her but i can’t after what she said. she called me a stalker, called me jealous, said i confused love and lust when it came to my ex, and finally that i only became christian to make my ex happy. normally if anyone calls me a stalker or jealous i just laugh, but for her to say that it’s hypocritical. but the love/lust confusion and religion things are personal and for those i can not find it in me to forgive her. especially after what i know about her and her ex.

Well this sounds full of resentment, jelousy, immaturity and manipulation and worse blackmail. Jeepers, bad juju all around. Stay away, tell her to cool it or you will take legal action.

hmmm i mite just have to do that. thanks for the help. i just hope that i can finally get her to leave me alone.