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No, your not alone. There are many people all over who are going through the same situations like you. They are alone in their mind but they are all the same. If you died, all your loved ones would notice, you don’t think they will but they do. Your leaving will leave a huge gap in your family, and all your friends will get a nervous feeling in their stomachs, and everyone will think to themselves if they had something to do with your leaving.

The only advice I can think to give is to just take each day at a time.

Thanks to both of you.
Yeah it’s hard especially when you’re alone.
I didn’t think that anyone would actually reply
but i just had to let it out . thanks again

Anytime, you know you can talk to us as much as you want and we’ll always be here.

So what do you think you need to do to get yourself feeling better?

thanks (:
honestly, it’s more of an internal feeling.
Pondering why i am here . It’s not like i chose to be born
i just feel empty. Like i dont belong. Worthless is the ideal word. it hurts
Makes me just want to end it for good.

What if some of us wanted you to stay?

Don’t worry. You’re a better and wiser person for your questioning your purpose, at least you’re not blindly just going thru the motions of life without meaning!

I have grappled for so long with this question, why are we here, what is the point, all of that angsty stuff. And I have no answer, seriously I believe there is none. The only point of life is to live, and sometime in the future there will be no more life on this planet, perhaps this universe, perhaps anywhere ever. Ok. I know that might sound depressing, but its really quite mindblowingly incredible that the conditions for life arose, and that any life at all arose, and that we, intelligent(sometimes!) and reasoning sentient beings are here at all! And its so amazing that we are around, albeit for an extremely short life-span, that it seems a waste not to enjoy every brief second we have!

I recommend reading Bill Brysons book ‘A short history of nearly everything.’ Even just the first 3 pages of the introduction! because it makes you realise, hot ****, life is flipping incredible and its a trillion million chance to one that we are here able to talk to each other! Gave me a whole new perspective anyway. Its bloody amazing that you’re here, alive, and you have as much right to be here as anyone, don’t waste the opportunity, eh?

Karma Amelia wrote:
What if some of us wanted you to stay?

Haha ,
karma you don’t know me
why would you care if i lived or died?
it’s not a retoricle question honestly i would like to know (:

and jenn,
That may be true but not for everyone.
Honestly nothing i do is right. I cant ever seem to be good enough.
So why bother? Really I just want to crawl in a hole until my life
is over. Does that make me a bad person ?

Laugh all you want. I can honestly say that I don’t want you to. Even though I don’t know you. I’d be willing to make an effort to help you, if that means you wouldn’t?

No i would do the same its just weird that people actually care

Yes it is weird, but I guess thats the community you’ve stumbled upon :)

Haha yes i guess so