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i’M kinda falling in love with my bestfriend

i have a boyfriend and i feel so guilty i love my boyfriend so much that just makes me feel worse because i have feelings for this guy and he likes me too, i dont want to ruin my relationship by talking to anybody about it but i dont no what to do!

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Chiara*Chaos offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

You’re in love with you’re best friend huh?
That’s hard . Really i get you . my best friend is
a heartthrob not that i’d ever feel that way. but honestly
i can only tell you this
Do what’s in you’re heart because it’s not fair to you
you’re boyfriend or you’re bestfriend to cheat on you’re feelings
because really all you’re doing is being fake .. mostly to you’re self
and who knows maybe you’ll find out that you got something really good about
being true to everyone
i hope i helped (:

x.

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Angel-T offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 2 minutes after post)

I have another take on this…
It is very natural for you to find other people around you attractive.
It is up to you to do the honourable thing.
If you really love your boyfriend as you say you do, then you need to think very carefully.
You need to realise that once you are in a relationship there is a certain amount of commitment and honesty required. This other guy has probably flirted a bit and made you feel good about yourself, but all this is very short lived. If you decide to take this further the following could happen; break your boyfriends heart, end up realising that it wasnt what you thought it would be and losing them both. (Like the dog that saw another bone which turned out to be a reflection).
So be very careful and rather try and make your current relationship work and not spend as much time with the friend might also help…
Good luck :)

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1 year ago (22 hours, 1 minute after post)

thank you

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luvaero7 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 5 months ago (7 months, 3 weeks after post)

i know exactly how you feel and its happening to me im like physically attracted to my good friend and i love my boyfriend so much i cant imagine not having him and i feel so selfish bc i dont know what i need to do i know i need to stay with my boyfriend because hes my best choice as a boyfriend but he’s going to college and my best friend is in my grade and we still have a whole other year to go and idk what to do!

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