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Think of it this way.

Anyone who can do these things is not worthy of your love. You deserve better.

Do you have somewhere to go tonight?

Don’t kill yourself. I know it hurts but it will get better~ keep busy do things with friends, family, etc. don’t give yourself time to think.

i was only staying the night there we were all drinking then we had a little row over nothing he called his mam and she pushed me out the door. i dont even understand this it was a tiff and im 23 and neither of us were shouting. i love him so much i cant even imagine my life without him so i wont stay

killing yourself over a guy totally not worth killing yourself over

Seems like this is still a fairly fresh happening.
You said “we were all drinking”…can you explain the night alittle more clearly?

I understand how you feel completely. But killing yourself isn’t the answer~ your bf doesn’t even sound worth it if he is going to be like that. I know it doesn’t seem that way right now. your friends, family, etc would miss you so much. don’t do that to them. suicide is never the answer.

Well princess, it sounds like you don’t need to be in that house a minute longer.

Drink can lead people to foolish decisions and unacceptable behaviour.

Don’t take it too much to heart as it seems drunken behaviour may be the problem here.

You do need to consider whether you really want to stay with someone who behaves unpredictably after a drink or two and cannot control themselves. That goes for his family too.

me him his mam and brother then we headed up to bed and thats when we started to argue. he can be very dramtic when drunk but even today his phone is off and i havent heard from him

cheers for saying he hates me

no offense but he sounds like an @ss. you don’t need that drama every time he drinks.

who said he hates you?

He is disrespecting you. That’s different.

im fed up

fed up with what?

With whom are you fed up?

if it happen when drunk, he might not mean it. Then again, if he acts like this when drunk, you deserve someone much, much better.

I can understand you feel fed up. It all seems so unfair and crazy.

But, what you maybe can’t see right now is that if it wasn’t for this event.. you may have never realised what the reality of his and his family’s behaviour is like until way too late.

Don’t worry about phoning or trying to fix things for now.

If he is at all interested in rescuing the relationship he will call you. If he doesn’t, you know that you did the right thing to keep a distance.

i wouldn’t kill myself over what others did …think of when someone has died in ur life and how sad it was…now the people that have never done you wrong and love you a lot…would you want to do that to them…put the people that love you in that pain just because u killed urself out of selfishness?

hey are you still there?

nope she’s off line

Ohmygod, your boyfriend is a wuss. lol.

his mommy did you a favor. find a REAL man, sweetheard.

Well, go to school, be creative and find yourself.

THEN find a real man, a little later down the line.

Hey Princesslolipop,

Please don’t hurt yourself in any way, you are already going through alot and your decisions are not going to be the same as when you would otherwise be happy.

Yes it hurts, no one can tell you otherwise.. even if the other person is acting like a jerk and doesn’t deserve you, that still doesn’t change that you cared for that person and to break away from them hurts, it friggin really and literally does hurt, your heart aches, your body feels sick and ill and a ton of other things are all going on which make it all so intense.

But at the same time, you are growing, your spiritual self will be expanding to all these new capacities of emotion and feeling - all this will allow you to become a better person, someone who has a greater capacity for love, compassion and mercy. People who live in darkness can better appreciate the Light, and sometimes we experience this type of darkness in order to prepare us for better things our destiny will bring us.

You are not alone, the Creator who gave you your life and soul is with you, watching over you, protecting you and guiding your life.

It will be better if you can write out all the things that are bothering you, offload your burdens onto here - knowing that the people who care about you and understand what you are going through will make you feel lighter inside.

Take care of yourself, I will be thinking about you.

Love, J.

I agree that this WILL blow over. Depending on what you want im sure we can help you figure things out on what to do next , if anything. Do you love him, want him back in your life?

Some day you are going to laugh at the irony of all this—-you grieving over a guy so immature he needs his MOM to kick you out. Believe me, some day you will see the humor.

thanks so much for all ur help. u guys are amazing!
not having him in my life has been hell every where and everything reminds me of him
and how much i love him this sucks

Someday you’ll meet a guy who actually treats you well and who loves you back, and you will wonder what you ever saw in THIS one. Meanwhile, stay busy—keep close to your friends, follow your interests, and find new pleasures one day at a time.

Good luck!