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I am really worried about my best friend.

She started going out with a guy and she seems to really like him. They seem good together but It’s like… the guy has something off about him. I mean, something he’s not telling her. I just really get that feeling off him. He’s from the same clique we hang out with and seems a decent enough sort when you talk to him. But something is still off. And I don’t want to tell her, she seems to like him a lot, she says she might even love him someday and i don’t want to ruin it for her..

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Kanabi offline Verified User (1 year, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

it sounds like something your friend should find out. If you see it progress and get worse, then tell her.

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1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Hmm. That sounds weird to me. Are you sure it isn’t all you? I mean, she is your best friend, and she just got a b/f. You have nothing to back up your bad vibes about him. Give him a chance…let her be happy with him.

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lizziev offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

If she’s your best friend you should be able to tell her how you feel, even if you think it is weird. And she should listen too. It’s just a suggestion, just because you think it doesn’t mean it’s absolutely true, so make she knows that and be honest with her. Best friends are meant to look out for each other after all.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

I told her to be careful, and now to forget who she is. I told her to remember that in the beginning of a relationship everything is peachy, but then the problems start appearing. The bad vibes come from the way he looks at her sometimes i don’t know how to explain it.

I don’t want to ruin this for her because the last time she had a relationship was three years ago, and when it ended she had quite a long break and i don’t want her to feel like she doesn’t have my support. We talk about everything, we tell each other things we don’t even tell to our own sisters. And i don’t want her to panic. And i am concerened because my vibes have never failed me. They have been right on every occasion.

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

*not to forget who she is

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