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So I live with my mom.

I’m 14. I live in Arizona. I absolutely HATE my mom. She moved me away from all my friends, into a place where i only have like three friends. Now she is driving all my old friends away, the ones I NEED. She told me I couldn’t talk to my best friend, who has helped me out so much and has actually helped to get along with my mom for awhile.
And I just dont know what to do. I can’t eat, I can’t sleep, I can’t function. I feel like ****.
The only thing I can think of is to live with my dad. But my mom says she won’t allow it. How can i possibly tell the courts I want to live with him without my mom’s permission?
I need help. A lot. :(

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Chiara*Chaos offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

Wow. That’s a lot to take in.
That isn’t fair and i can see where you’re coming from.
But maybe thats not the full story have you tried talking to her
about you’re rights about what you feel. Have you asked her about her
reasoning for not letting you talk to you’re friends. Have you been rebellious
anything? And you’re mother and father have an equal right to you
that is unless he is abusive, alcoholic, or anything in such matter
if not than i suggest that you talk to you’re father because you’re
mom cannot restrain you from him if thats where you want to be

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Shauna2000 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 9 hours after post)

Chiara*Chaos wrote:
Wow. That’s a lot to take in.
That isn’t fair and i can see where you’re coming from.
But maybe thats not the full story have you tried talking to her
about you’re rights about what you feel. Have you asked her about her
reasoning for not letting you talk to you’re friends. Have you been rebellious
anything? And you’re mother and father have an equal right to you
that is unless he is abusive, alcoholic, or anything in such matter
if not than i suggest that you talk to you’re father because you’re
mom cannot restrain you from him if thats where you want to be

I think this is a good answer!

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Chiara*Chaos offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 days after post)

I think this is a good answer![/quote]

:) Thanks !

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baby_bunny34200 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (4 months, 1 week after post)

Your mom must have a reason to not allow you to see those old friends. Don’t control your mom by leaving her after she has raised you all those years. Ask her why she won’t let you see them. I suppose you could play your game to get your way by leaving her and going to live with your dad. (That shouldn’t be an option!)You should love your mom more than those friends. Doesn’t your dad get to see you some times? Why can’t you use that time to also see your friends?

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