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Rant about my friend.

Ok So i have a friend, who i will can Z. Z is a friend one year younger than me, his a junior. his gay, and i love him. But lately i’ve been noticing how…annoying….bitchy maybe…he smokes, drinks, does drugs, thinks his perfect, treats his parent like if they were nothing, dates guys who are from 17 to the oldest has been 32, and tells them he is 18, yet “age doesnt matter in love” thinks his always the victim, thinks every else is wrong when he doesnt get it his way, and worst of all, he thinks he is to mature for kids his age, and thinks he belongs with older people in college. His a hypocrite he and i just want to slap him a few times sometimes, he thinks his not having enough fun for his age, even tho he parties or gets drunk or high every weekend, starting to do it during the week, and has sx, but complaints about some HPV thing he got because he cant get it, he can only give it. Yet he doesnt want to use condms, he blows of all his responsibility, cry’s about not being able to graduate with his class but he does nothing to improve his grades he failed his only 4 classes, and he only shows up to 3, sometimes…urgh im tired of him, but sometimes his an ok person…like 1 our 4 times….urgh!

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courtybubble offline Verified User (2 years, 6 months) Long Term User Shouts: 176 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (4 minutes after post)

how old is he actually?
im guessing around 15/16 ish. the whole acting like hes king of the world thing is pretty typical of that age for some guys.
id say hes pretty messed in the head about something, maybe his sexuality and accepting it, maybe family stuff, who really knows.
the only thing really you can do is let him know how hes acting, other than that its kind of up to him for something to happen to shake it out of him, and the way he is acting, im sure something pretty horrible will happen soon.

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1 year ago (1 day, 1 hour after post)

his 16, i dont think its his sexuality since he’s known his gay since he was like 5 and his been out for a while, his completely the stereotypical gay guy. His parents arent strict, they’re becoming a bit more but not really, but ive thought more about it and it might be since he stated smoking and doing drugs, but it also maybe that thats aound the time i may have started getting to really know him

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