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flirting help.

Im a 16 year old guy and the only girlfriends i had they pursued me. i dont really know where to start when it comes to flirting. Im not exactly comfortable talking to girls in the first place but i want to improve. absolutley anything and everything you have to offer would be great!

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Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (2 minutes after post)

Don’t Be A Fool, Wrap Your Tool !

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(>'')>~~~Kyle offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Gabz wrote:
Don’t Be A Fool, Wrap Your Tool !

lol

I’m the same way anonymous. I couldn’t ask a girl out or nothing if my life depended on it….Lol. Never had a girlfriend here, so you are ahead of me. It’ll come to ya

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12 months ago (5 minutes after post)

wtf?

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skyy offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (6 minutes after post)

Gabz wrote:
Don’t Be A Fool, Wrap Your Tool !

LOL, i dont think that helps him in the flirting department

There is nothing wrong with wanting to be persued. I tend to like guys who are laid back. The ones who are just like every other guy are not attractive to me. Be different let the girls come to you ;)

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Ξ.Ģäβž.Ξ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (10 minutes after post)

skyy wrote:
LOL, i dont think that helps him in the flirting department

No no. Need to visit the Latex Department well before the flirting department. lol

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Srinh offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (16 minutes after post)

ok/

act gay. seriously with all the gay stuff around?

they won’t take you seriuosly, then bam.

you’re a force to be reckoned with.

EVEN if you dont go “BAM.” It’s still a good idea to think , “metrosexual”.

because it helps you understand how the female pyche works.

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=Adam= offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
Riverton, NJ, US | 12 months ago (20 minutes after post)

Here’s another thought: Act casual. Be funny. Say things you would say to your friends. Do this only for about a week.

Pump it up a bit, little by little, getting a bit more flirty each time. Then, if she doesn’t shy away, ask her out.

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ihysah offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (34 minutes after post)

grow a pair

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iwana offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (48 minutes after post)

It’s hard to put yourself out there, but that’s what you’ve got to do. Like Adam said, just keep ramping up the contact. And don’t let the fear of rejection keep you from going forward. Good luck!

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hyenadan85 offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (20 hours, 3 minutes after post)

just act like friends i guess and if you get the feeling she is flirting talk to her about it if your interested

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