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*!MaryChan!*
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I believe my heart just shattered.

I was telling a guy I like a few of my problems, that make me want to cry, and all he says is.

Wow, I’m sorry. my brothers birthday was today..

That was a long way to fall…

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Chiara*Chaos offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

What a straight up ***-wipe

Ughh . I hate guys like thatt :|

GAAH

they make me throw up :\

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Snuffles777 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

Not unusual at all, sweetie. Most people try to ignore the “real” stuff since it tends to make them feel uncomfortable. I bet he can sympathize with something you said though. We’re all human after all… Same capacity for emotion and whatnot….

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

He said he loved me,

He said He’d make me happy,

and this is what he says?

I feel terrible

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Torvus offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

I’m sure he didn’t know how to respond. It’s hard to comfort someone when you don’t know what to say. Look at it this way, he was probably trying to change subject so you wouldn’t feel bad. He just went about it the wrong way.

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

crazyryan747 wrote:
I’m sure he didn’t know how to respond. It’s hard to comfort someone when you don’t know what to say. Look at it this way, he was probably trying to change subject so you wouldn’t feel bad. He just went about it the wrong way.

No, normally he’s not like that..

Normally, he would’ve said something more to me.. rather than changing the subject.

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Snuffles777 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (21 minutes after post)

Was someone else there? He might not have wanted to seem uncool. Or maybe he just couldn’t deal with someone else’s problems at this time.

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Sans offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 57 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

Look at it this way.. Sometimes cute people are stupid, or just bad at handling emotional situations. He’s probably kicking himself now for not knowing what to say.

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (30 minutes after post)

I doubt it..

He seems to be perfectly fine..

I’m going to go to sleep..

*sigh* shoot, I still have homework… oooh well.

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Torvus offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (34 minutes after post)

*!MaryChan!* wrote:
I doubt it..

He seems to be perfectly fine..

I’m going to go to sleep..

*sigh* shoot, I still have homework… oooh well.

Story of my life, lol. Blowing off homework and losing sleep over it. Sucks.

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