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i need words of wisdom.

im stuck and in a bad postition.
im desperatly paranoide and think everyone from my college hates me now cus i didnt go out with them tonight down th pub. im just sitting here thinking that they are constantly talking about me saying in a loner and mostly i know they arent but its not making me feel any better. the other thing thats made me feel worse is that the person i though was a really good friend of mine left me at college to get a lift off my brother and has not even texted me yet to ask whether im ok.

am i just kiddin myself that i can trust in these people or am i right to be paranoide and just keep myself to myself and just try not to worry about what they think about me.

because this has made me angry more then anythign that no one really cares wheather i get home safely its made me feel really really sick and because ive go this type of nervous itching ive made my leg bleed because ive scratched away at it so badly

ontop of that i think ive done something to my jaw cus it kinda hurts but i dont want to make a fuss about it.

can any one either set my mind at rest cus otherwise ill probably wont sleep

help please

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Vjj offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

I think you are being paranoid; I mean, if it was the other way around and one your of your friends missed one night out, would you really care *that* much? You’d probably they think they have a reason and they just wanna keep it to themselves.
But your anger about no one caring if you’re alright is quit justified. Maybe you should casually ask someone about it tomorrow, like ask if you missed out on anything last night and see if they do care if you were missing out. If you think it would help.
And don’t scratch your leg like that :| I used to do that when I was nervous and now I have really bad skin infections in my legs. It’s horrible. Really, really stop! :s

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little Red offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 6 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

is there anything i can do about the itching? cus its really getting on my nerves

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Vjj offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 1 Add Friend #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (33 minutes after post)

Put moisturiser on it. It’ll calm your skin down. The rest is will power… I found, like, slapping yourself (I know it sounds ridiculous) was better for stopping the itch because that doesn’t break and irritate your skin more.

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