friends help: Revenge is a dish best served cold by a 4 year old…

sarisa_grimwing

Revenge is a dish best served cold by a 4 year old…

Ok yeah that is a good line but seriously where does someone get off calling another a bad mother and pathetic when we just get home after a 6 hour drive and I just got married. Crazy wench she is miserable and incapable of being happy yet me my new husband and my child have to suffer because she’s crazy… I’m just as crazy as she is but I have to be provoked to go off. I did go off I yelled and told her not to talk about me and my child and basically told her I trust her as far as I can throw her which isn’t very far because she’s a fat biatch. I can’t do anything right now about the living situation and neither can anyone else till tomorrow sadly though my child is terrified to even sleep because this girl scares her she wants mommy to hurt this girl but I can’t because of course it’s not legal and I won’t even though the biatch is antagonizing me every second to hit her. I am holding my temper very well but I’m about to lose it my daughter is so scared and my husband and her husband are friends and have tried to quell the situation but it’s not working, she thinks she’s god. I am trying to figure out a solution I am brand new here his family is in cali mine is 6 hours away and we’ve tried speaking like adults but this girl is like psycotic and there is nothing I can do to speak with her my mother suggested I call the police again and tell them she’s abused my child by yelling in front of her and screaming and they should be able to have her removed but I don’t know… we went to the landlord as well but he doesn’t want anything to do with the situation.

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Da⌐11 3 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

If you want to be a good mother, start with teaching your daughter that hurting people is no way to handle a stressful situation.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

If you have to live with her you should mess with her head a little. just wear lipstick on one side of your mouth. Wink at her a lot. Leave really gross non food leftovers in the fridge. When she tries to talk to her don’t make sense but talk with a normal cadence.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

Be goofy, she wants you freaked out and serious.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

draw eyes on your eyelids so whenever you close them she will see them. Other than that I would say ignore her and she’ll stew in her own juices.

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closed 53 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

just smile at her, chuckle and walk away, shaking your head.

Anonymous #
1 year ago (58 minutes after post)

living well is the best revenge….so just keep going with you life and dont let her phase you…not only will this make you the better person but it will show your kids not to give into anger and walking away makes you bigger in the end.

sarisa_grimwing 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 18 minutes after post)

The problem is she comes in yelling and screaming and my child is terrified of this girl she won’t even get out of the car unless she thinks the girl is locked up in her bedroom and can’t get out. I’ve tried to explain that she’s gonna be ok and that the crazy girl can’t hurt her but she won’t have it. I am in fear for my child myself and my husband she wound up throwing a picture frame at her own husband and cutting her hand she has tried to threaten our marriage which i don’t care of the president was pushing and her husband was pulling she couldn’t do a **** thing to **** it up but anyhow she has continued to threaten trying to ruin my husbands career and making statements that she’s leaving or calling someone to come over and take her but alas she remains.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

why do you have to live in that house?

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sarisa_grimwing 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 25 minutes after post)

We went to his chain of command today to try to figure out what we could do like where to go for the night but of course there was nothing until tomorrow so now we are stuck in this hell hole and the cops won’t do anything of course.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 26 minutes after post)

military houseing?

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sarisa_grimwing 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 44 minutes after post)

We are off post at the moment and the crazy wench is terrorizing my child by yelling and screaming knowing my child is scared, she said she didn’t care because it’s not her child she can’t have kids…. on top of that we called the cops they said until my child is physically hurt they can’t do anything to remove her from the home.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 45 minutes after post)

Yes that sounds scarey, can you leave tommorow for a new house?

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sarisa_grimwing 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 48 minutes after post)

We are trying but he has to go to work in the morning his chain of command knows whats happening plus on top of that he has to get us signed up for the military stuff and get all our id’s and stuff…. I’m just upset because when you need assistance you can’t get it but when there isn’t anything going on they are all over you threatening to take your child away and arrest people.
I am seriously in fear for my childs safety but the police/sheriffs office here will not help.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 51 minutes after post)

you guys can handle it. She doesn’t have to have access to your family. Work as a unit and make sure the child is secure.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

Lock your door and don’t even let her look at your daughter if you can help it.

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sarisa_grimwing 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 57 minutes after post)

Well the thing is I can’t even bathe or feed my child… on top of that my child is scared to go to the bathroom or unlock our bedroom door due to the situation she shouldn’t be living in this fear.

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sarisa_grimwing 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 59 minutes after post)

I shouldn’t feel that I can’t walk out and make dinner for my child for fear of another altercation.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 5 minutes after post)

you shouldn’t feel that way but you are in that situation. I advize eat out, skip the bath and stay in your room until you are not living with this lady who is actually dangerous.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

I’ve lived with people who were just a royal pain but she seems to be psychotic like you said.

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sarisa_grimwing 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 6 minutes after post)

She is she’s scaring my child as we speak.

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sarisa_grimwing 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 7 minutes after post)

We are thinking pick up dinner and come home in the first place but we have to wait for her to go in her room since my child can’t even look or hear this girl without crying

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 7 minutes after post)

Give her a hug from me. It won’t be forever.

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sarisa_grimwing 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 8 minutes after post)

I’m holding every bit of self control trying not to go ape **** on this woman I really want to tie her up hog tie her gag her and toss her *** out the door.

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Time Traveller 8 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 9 minutes after post)

Don’t do it or the police will be on you.

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sarisa_grimwing 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 9 minutes after post)

I know I’m not it’s just a nice thought.

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blf 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 hours, 20 minutes after post)

why dont you get a hotel room…it may cost you money but it will be for your childs well being for now…plus it will hopefully reduce your stress for the night….you may feel that she should be the one getting the hotel room but since she isnt you just might have to…it will make you feel better until you get everything straightened out.

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sarisa_grimwing 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 hours, 4 minutes after post)

We can’t get a hotel room due to the fact that his debit card will not work some bills came in as well plus the cash I had wound up getting used to unlock my doors… I locked my keys in my car on our wedding day yesterday >. If we could get one… we would. Trust me I’ve thought of every possible option. Right now we are holed up in our room trying to avoid the hostile situation.

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Times' gone mad 6 #
Silver Spring, MD, US | 1 year ago (16 hours, 10 minutes after post)

Break lease, and find a new place to live. With your husbands status updated to married, he should be receiving higher compensation—with you as a Dependant (food + housing especially if you’re off post) granted, it could be next month, or next payday that his paycheck will reflect.

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sarisa_grimwing 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 days, 2 hours after post)

We finally found a place thank god yeah the extra money won’t be in for a couple months but its ok and he knows he’s getting stop lossed already so that means that when it comes time for his time to end he’ll be deploying but we’ve talked about it … it will be ok. We are happy and that’s all that matters other than my daughters safety of course and she is excited since she has her own room now with tinkerbell and disney princess and little kitties

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