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Not sure what to do, any help will be appreciated.

Hey all, I’m kinda new here so I got no clue on how this site works but either way I’d just like your opinion on what I should do. K so here it is the thing I’m more or less head over heels for my best friend. I’ve known her for about 4 years and it’s been a bit more than 3 years since I’ve had a crush on her and yes I let her know about it. Well the thing is (not sure how much this may have affected anything), there were a whole bunch of guys who were asking her out while I was trying too and all the while she used to tell me about it and ask me for help on it (she didn’t really want a relationship then). I told her what I felt a year later when things had calmed down a bit, and well we didn’t talk a whole lot for a bit but eventually figured that was silly and went back to being friends. We’ve grown closer ever since, but the problem is that I still am head over heels for her. Tried to stop thinking about her and move on and all but that didn’t work out too well. Well either way she rather friendly around me, as in some people have mistaken us for a couple (cause of the way we act around each other, like really flirty at times). But every time someone points it out she stops and gets kinda of embarrassed. She even keeps a little cartoon I drew for her in her wallet and I drew that a long time back. See I would have tried asking her again but there is this other guy and supposedly he is “super cute” lol, but she say he’s got no personality. But she still has a crush on him of sorts (btw I should mention we are both in university and we are in two different majors). So either way these two have class together, while I get to see her on occasion (we try to keep in touch as much as possible) and oh here’s a twist lol. The “super cute” guy already has a girlfriend. So what do I do, I can’t seem to stop thinking about this, her and its just plain driving me insane. Lol some of you may say to move on, but how, like we live really close-by, the two of us have always been close so to stop talking would ruin not only our friendship but would also affect a few others (we stopped talking for a bit recently and it left us both troubled). So ya, that’s my story any help would be appreciated and thanks for reading the whole thing (I know it’s kinda long lol).

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1 year ago (1 day, 3 hours after post)

It can’t be helped that you can’t stop thinking about her right? Because you’ve liked her for so long, it’d be hard to move on like you said. As for the other guy.. even if she still likes him you can try talking to her about your crush again. See how things play out..

It can't be helped that you can't stop thinking about her right? Because you've liked her for so long, it'd be hard to move on like you said. As for the other guy.. even if she still likes him you can try talking to her about your crush again. See how things play out..

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