Love help: Well im gay and……. - Help.com

Dude… some people are retarded. Ignore them, they’re not worth your time.

Well no matter what there will always be people who hate you. but this is your life not theres you should live it the wa you want and not how some one else thinks you should. who cares what they think. if they dislike you because your gay well then they are stupid the should like you for who you are and not who you like

i try and try but when people devour me with negative comments it begins to tear me apart, i can usually stand a couple of names at once but when it gets to be like 5 or more at once then its hard :(

They’re just words, man. Let ‘em go.

Yea it is hard. all my mates have deserted me because my boyfriend broke up with me. i know that you try. and i know that it is hard to keep on trying. life is full of hard hitting lessons. yea it compleatly sucks. but you just need to try living one day at a time. yea it hurts when people give us negative comments but you no unless your extremly popular every one gets them. it hurts but all we can do is try

alright, i just wont let them see that it bothers me so maybe they wont have anything to thrive off of, and then maybe they will stop…

If you don’t react when they poke you, they’ll get bored of doing it, and leave you alone.

Thats a good plan. and there are always people you can talk to if they don’t. but just try and be strong. if the start making comments sing your favorate song in your head. or just say its o.k. they don’t bother me. and never will bother me because i choose what bothers me

thanks your guys…
i just really have a hard time understanding everything because im one of the top popular kids in my school, but then them boys just hate me and it gets bad where i have to run home from school because they chase me
:/

If they so much as touch you when you don’t want them to, that’s called assault. If it’s because you’re gay, it’s a hate crime. You don’t have to take that. Call the police.

It’s because your different. If you walked around with a hockey mask on all day people would make fun of you too. face it there are more of us straights then you gays. unfortunately your gonna get picked on. let it roll off your back and live your life. The sooner you start living your life and stop worrying about what people think about you the happier you will be.

People are soo cruel. try and if possible stand up for yourself. say: yes i’m gay so what you got a problem with that

Never let them see you sweat. If they know it bothers you forget about it they will ride you around all day long.

im getting better i just moved to the city from a small town and at the small town they would help me even when me and my mom did call the police…. thats why i havent called them in the city yet because i dont think that they will care…

Great advice in the above comments.

Yes. People are cruel. I tend to think its because they are more insecure about themselves than anything. They are uncomfortable with who they are and so they find all these excuses to be cruel. They are really afraid of what they are feeling inside and so they react with anger, condemnation or fear. The fact you are brave enough to be yourself demonstrates a maturity they don’t have. Always be yourself and be proud of who you are. There is nothing wrong with being gay and it doesn’t have anything to do with those people. Maybe someday they will truly grow up and understand that .

just keep yourself busy. try yourhardest when they get to you to put your mind somewhere else. just think of where you wish you were at that moment. if it does get bad you should call the cops. don’t be scared to

Many people are opposed against it b/c the act is considered a sin and this will never change so to expect understanding from them is unrealistic.Dont expect, then you wont be disappointed.I like what mellybax said’if they dislike you because your gay well then they are stupid the should like you for who you are and not who you like ‘the only thing I would change is ’stupid’ - they lack understanding. people feqar what they don’t understand. That makes it their problem. Not yours.So dont take it personal when you hear cruel words.They are attacking the ‘label’of homosexuality, not you. I know it hurts and you need solutions for the bullying so i suggest assertiveness and expand your vocabulary so you know what to say http://www.hodu.com/default.htm Just one question if you dont mind, how do they know at school you are gay? many keep it a secret

You know, to Muslims, it’s a sin for anyone, including Christians, to eat pork. If you expect people to follow your religions, then you have to follow everyone else’s.

people know im gay because holding it in hurts more than getting called name’s….
to me holding it in and lying my whole life and pretending was the wost thing EVER…
and then now i just have to deal with the negative people.

so i just told everyone

well just be stronge. that all you need to do is try and be strong. don’t give in to anyone. if some one is teasing you just ignor them and try your hardest not to show them that it hurts. teenage years are tough. just give it a little while and hopefully it will go away. i know its hard. but all we can do is try

dakotaclark_1 wrote:
so i just told everyone

oh, Maybe your expectations at the time was ‘open arms’? surely you should have known there would be problems.Im not saying you asked for it b/c no one deserves ridicule just that you expected to be accepted with open arms, that was unrealistic.But I guess your young and naive to the ways of the world.and had to be true to yourself, thats very important and admirable.I wish you luck and safety

sorry, i didnt mean to repeat myself :/

I wouldn’t trade spots with you in a million years, being gay in high school is one of the top 10 worst things to go through.

The best thing you can do is try to find gay youth groups in your area where you can start to build a community and life for yourself where you don’t feel isolated, alone, and abnormal.

You deserve great friends, get involved in the community…GLBT.