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I have a Crush on my professer.

He’s so amazing and I really like him. I’m 20 and he is around 28-30. What should I Do? And is it allowed for students and professers to be together at colleges?

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krissolomo offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

sorry can i delete this one?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (38 minutes after post)

I’m not sure what the rule is in america, but from where I come from it would not be advised! A lot of trouble springs from something like that.

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Doctor Hu :) offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 hours, 4 minutes after post)

Haha, no it is not allowed. Nice try. I’m pretty sure there is some rule against that somewhere. Maybe if he was just “a” professor, but since he’s your’s best move on and find an appropriate crush. Question, is he actually a professor, or is he a grad student teaching a course?

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 16 hours after post)

Be careful with your heart. Use it wisely. You don’t even know if he is married or not. Look for someone your own age. You will be happier.

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pink sparkle offline Verified User (1 year, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (2 days, 6 hours after post)

I think it’s not allowed. What does the student handbook say? In our place, that would be socially unacceptable and inappropriate. To most, (I think), the teacher - student relationship is not allowed because of professionalism. The relationship should be preserved as purely educational…I suggest you find another crush.

Try getting your mind off him and busy yourself with something fun yet academically (or socially) productive.

Having crushes is just a passing feeling of infatuation so don’t worry.

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