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I love a boy but he loves my friend.All my friends

hate him beacuse he loves my friend and I pretend to hate him but inside I love him.How can i make him love me?PLEASE HELP I’M CRAZY FOR HIM!!!!!!

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anweijmc offline Verified User (2 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Birmingham, A7, GB | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

exactly the same thing happened to me. In the summer holidays whilst i was abroad i realised i missed him. I thought i was going crazy because I really REALLY missed him. It was all I could do not to jump on him when I next saw him but I already knew he had feelings for my friend who isnt interested. I kept hoping and praying that he would love me to but it got me nowhere. I started seeing him less and less now and now I dont care for him any more. If you keep your distance from him you will either for get about him or he will miss you. Good luck xx

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Crisabell offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 8 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

.. hes bad bad . do u have to fall twice to underrstand this boy is a ***? and he dsunt love u ? do u want to be in love with him and have to know that he loves someone else? dont think so ~ better get over it

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Jen Masterson offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (39 minutes after post)

You cant FORCE feallings
And as a Female, You are Dominate…

Boys WORK and FIGHT for the female race, So don’t waste your time with one whos fighting for someone else…

Stop going for him, and they will come to you.

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tomstar offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 2 minutes after post)

#if he likes your friend then you must hate your friend??

#what do you think is going to happen to you and your friend, being a boy involved??

#what is more important, friend your boy??

#do you think you can make him feel the same way you feel??

#what happens if your friend likes him??

#how are you going to feel??

Great, YOU have answered these questions right, you have won a bridge!!!
now GET OVER IT!!

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i.want.candy2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 11 months, 3 weeks ago (1 month, 1 week after post)

a similar thing is happening to me :( it sucks he likes some other girl but still wants me, my friend hates him and says im better then him and such, but im constantly thinking about him and wishing i could be with him. he denies wanting the other girl but he sent her a meesage when he was drunk saying that hes inlove with her, but when he was sober again he claims he doesnt know anything about it (dont ask how i know this) :S i think the best thing to do is try to move on and relise someone else is going to come around :)

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inloveforeve offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 3 weeks ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

Im going through the same thing right now: I have been friends with him for a long time and always liked hiim but 2 days ago i introduced him to my best friend sian.. they goot on okay nothin major but now they have added eachother on bebo so they can keep talkin. Yesterday i went on bebo and i have seen that he has commented on all her pics sayin how ‘pretty’ she looks when he only talked to her once and he hasnt even commented on my pics and we have been friends 4 ages.. i was crying my heart out all last night and i still feel like crying now.. im thinkin about confessing my feelings to him.. im not sure.. i no i havent exactly given advice but i want to see the advice that is given to you.. and i cant move on im in love..

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An Unknown Location | 9 months ago (3 months, 4 weeks after post)

i really dont know what to do. I asked him to be my boyfriend. Now i found out he likes one of my best friends.

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sarah.zain offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 1 week ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

exactly the same thing is happening to me.. I . my friend isnt interested she haets him. I kept hoping and praying that he would love me to but ifeel like i am running in a circle .I care for him.i cant stop thinking about him .so im going to take The advice that u goet

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niru_siva_kal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 2 weeks ago (6 months, 1 week after post)

i was like new to my skool,so i didnt kno wat to do,me n this gurl became really close friends,after days i came to kno that the guy i like (for 3 years,but he doesnt kno) likes my friend.she has no clue tht i like him. i don talk to him anymore casue i feel weird. my other friends are sayin tht he likesme but his friends are saying he likes her. but in the outside i act like i hate him.he is not that special.its just that i like him,thts it.i cant move on cause im in love wid him (for ever)

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juliadartnal offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 month, 2 weeks ago (11 months, 2 weeks after post)

im going through the same thing right now and i know how much it hurts and i know its not as easy as everybody thinks just to get over him but i know i have to and i know that my friend is more important at the end of the day! But i will still love him always but hes going to have to chase me from now on and thats not easy just to let him go but just be sexy and confident and he will want you more than anything play hard to get babe! But maybe you can find someone better :) good luck xxxx

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