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I like this guy..but the thing is I don’t want to like him at all though because…

i don’t know i just dont want to be rejected and the thing is i don’t even know if things are going to work out to begin with and all my friends are like why don’t you take a risk and allthat but to me its like WTF..Like he even told me he likes this other girl but that was way before i decided i like him..and we talk on AIM but only sometimes..I wish i had someone to like just tell me straight up what to do..but I don’t know…I kinda have feelings for my best friend though..and he happens to be a guy that I liked for the longest time.. Don’t really know what to do…do I keep waiting for the guy that I want might come..or do I just still talk to him (the guy i like now) or just forget about the possiblity of me and him being toghter…

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EmilyRI offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

Life is all about risks. So here’s your options:
1. Do nothing.
2. Ask the kid out
3. Ask your best friend out
4. Remember the other cool things about life besides boys

:)

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~Queen Of Kaos~ offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

Straight up.
Tell him how you feel.
If he likes you, then you’ll be relieved and feel better about yourself.
If he doesnt like you, then that would be his own problem.
You dont need a guy to make you happy.
And as EmilyRI said, “remember the other cool things about life besides boys”
live by those words. You’ll have your whole life, to learn, to love, and to get hurt, then finally love again.

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Victoria Sponge offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
Fritwell, K2, GB | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

I reacon wait a dew years before getting all stressed out about boys, concertrate on school/college whatever and having loads of fun with your friends, before you know it you will be 30 with kids and a mortgage wishing you caould be young free anf single again, make the most of it now,
I know you won’t take this advice so my other advice is take a risk ask him out take the rejection if you have to if you want to get into boys you better get used to rejection trust me it’s happens to us all at somepoint, it won’t kill you and what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger and rejection is better than regret and never knowing, if you don’t ask him you will never know what could happen

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