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I’m starting to become friends with a girl i really like.

She has a boyfriend however. Should I just wait it out or take action? I’m afraid of becoming “just a friend” and am not sure what to do. I’m 15 if this helps at all.
Thanks in advance!

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Caleo =3 offline Verified User (12 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (4 minutes after post)

don’t go all over her, but be sweet and hard to get at the same time. go on Google and look up 19 ways to a girls heart or something like that..its from a user at help.

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (4 minutes after post)

How serious are they? How is their relationship from what you observe?

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12 months ago (50 minutes after post)

actually, i don’t observe anything because her boyfriend lives a little while away and she has told me that they usually only get to see each other on the weekend or every other weekend.

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (53 minutes after post)

Well if you really like her tell her that you do and say that youll back off if she doesnt feel the same and you dotn wanna be a relationship breaker but you just felt you needed to tell ehr that and ud still like to be her friend.

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Anonymous #
12 months ago (1 hour, 52 minutes after post)

snar, what are some things i could say that would express that? I’m not exactly a very outgoing person and am more on the shy side.
Thanks

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Snar offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 12 months ago (2 hours, 1 minute after post)

Well tell her “I think I might like you a little more then a friend and I know it might be wrong of me to say that because you have a boyfriend but I thought I should tell you incase you had any feelings for me. I dotn want this to ruin our friendship and I’m sorry if it makes you uncomfortable.”

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11 months, 4 weeks ago (21 hours, 54 minutes after post)

are there anyways i could hint at it without coming right out and telling her? like i said, im kind of shy

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jeffjackson4 offline Verified User (1 month) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 month ago (10 months, 3 weeks after post)

I am kinda in the same situation. here is the story:
I like this girl and we are becoming good friends and getting to know eachother. but I don’t know how she feels and am affraid to tell her because she is in a realationship and has been for two years. I want to tell her but I also don’t want to ruin our friendship. please help!!

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