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Bad things that happened.

I had some terrible things happen to me a few years back, but I am trying very hard to get over them. I lost all my friends when it happened, but I have been trying to move on and meet some new friends. Problem being that whenever I get close to someone they want to know about my past obviously. So far, no one I have told, not matter how much I trusted them has stayed in touch with me. People pretend to care for all of 2 days and then after that I can’t even get them to look at me in the street.

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Lux 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (1 minute after post)

What exactly happened? If you don’t mind…

Help me with: Every time I talk to some one, I fear that they are secretly very annoyed with me and are only being polite.

lulzapalooz 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (4 minutes after post)

Everyone has baggage. Just keep it to yourself as best you can. Enjoy the good things, and don’t place the bad things on other’s shoulders; they’re your burdens, not anyone elses. We’re all martyrs, save for the children.

Help me with: I haven’t had to work in about a year.

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (10 minutes after post)

lulzapalooz wrote:
Everyone has baggage. Just keep it to yourself as best you can. Enjoy the good things, and don’t place the bad things on other’s shoulders; they’re your burdens, not anyone elses. We’re all martyrs, save for the children.

I disagree a little bit, this site is kind of meant to help people by letting them of load and take advice from others. If we all kept to ourselves we wouldn’t be here now. Life is hard, but I like this site, I think that it is a good thing in a sometimes gloomy world. Sure I wish that everyone was so content that they didn’t need this site, but that is not the case, so here we are.

If there is anything at all that you want to say anon, go right ahead.

Help me with: Every time I talk to some one, I fear that they are secretly very annoyed with me and are only being polite.

lulzapalooz 1 #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (13 minutes after post)

Of course, Raul, that’s true. There are always exceptions, but I stand by my advice.

Help me with: I haven’t had to work in about a year.

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 7 months ago (15 minutes after post)

I have to head off right now anon, but feel free to leave anything at all here and we’ll read it.

Help me with: Every time I talk to some one, I fear that they are secretly very annoyed with me and are only being polite.

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 12 months ago (7 months, 1 week after post)

Wow that must be very hard to live with

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An Unknown Location | 3 years, 12 months ago (7 months, 1 week after post)

if you would like to confide in us, i’ll be happy to listen.
i agree with zip-in-time. you do not have to give a reason why you are who you are
these people of yours seem immature and not ready to help you
if these things that have happenedto you always get in the way, you can either:
-skate over it every time you are asked…just dont mention it.
-tell them and let them make their own mind up.

Help me with: I feel so sad.

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