talk help: I need someone to talk to……..I’m exhausted, - Help.com

Can you take time out? Go on a Holiday? Just a weekend away? Just to clear your head and think about how to deal with things?

You are making yourself ill, how about just a day by yourself put on some music that will relax you and clear your mind for a few hours then once you are relaxed take a look at things. Whats exhausing you so much is it work? Personal life?

Yeah the whole world is stressed about money right now, the migranes would go if you were less stressed I’m sure they must be linked, you need to watch your blood pressure, are you paying all your bills on time, as long as that is done you are on safe ground still

but you can stay in together, this weekend with Christmas and my boyfriends birthday coming up we are staying in house hunting, watching a DVD and drinking wine together, I’m looking forward to it so much more than going out with him. Do you have lots of people to buy for, I have 6 children in our family my boyfriend all my friends cousins aunts uncles aaaaggh madness so we have come all maed a deal ony to buy for the children in our family and not the adults, me and my friends have come to an agreement that we are not going to buy for each other this year as none of us have any money, have you talked to anyone about cutting back maybe suggest a secret santa with your family or something?

Can you rent a DVD? Thats we are doing, or just go for a walk together then maybe cook dinner together, we do that all the time somethime we walk to the pub on a sunday just share a bottle of wine which os £5 so maybe $10 then walk home thats not too expensive just $5 each, do any shops do like a buy 2 get one free, boots do that and I get a lot of my gifts from there, I got all mine last month tho as I didn;t want to have to worry about it all this month like I do every December!