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Omg im such a loser me and this girl have been talking

for a while and i asked her out twice and every single time shes breaks up with m the next day i love this girl and i broke down and went crazy she says she cant get over her ex like i said i went crazy man and i think i ruined any chance wat should i do about this

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¡ʎuɐɟɟıʇ offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

You’re not the loser.. she is. No offence.

But come on? She breaks up with you the very next day? Why the heck does she agree to go out with you anyway?

Also have you all had any previous relationship? Why do you feel like you love her?

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yimmyyimmy78 offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

idk why she keeps saying yes but she does i love her because she is the coolest girl in the world shes beautiful and smart also oddly enough her name is tiffany

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Help me with: Okay so heres the deal.
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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

Have you told her you loved her?
This early on, it probably just scared her off..

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yimmyyimmy78 offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

no i nvr really said it because i wasnt sure but she said she was falling for me and that she cant get over her old bf and that she scared of getting hurt again and i tried to explain to her im different but i guess she didnt listen. if i did scare her away how can i fix it

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Help me with: Okay so heres the deal.
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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

Hmm..
If you didn’t say it, I don’t think you scared her off just yet.
If her last relationship was serious, it’s just going to take time. (Trust me, I know.) Rushing into a new relationship will just hurt you both in the end. Make sure she is okay with the past and has moved on from him. When you’re dating someone you want them to be all about *you*, right? Well if she isn’t yet over her ex ..that isn’t going to be possible.
Just give her time and show her that you’ll be there for her and respect her in the decisions she makes. Be patient. :]

However, don’t let her just play you around. If she keeps going back to her ex or sort of goes back and forth between you both, just leave her alone. Don’t let your feelings for her allow her to walk all over you.

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yimmyyimmy78 offline Verified User (3 years, 2 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (32 minutes after post)

ok thank you for the help im going to take your advice

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Help me with: Okay so heres the deal.
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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (37 minutes after post)

Yep, no problem. :)

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An Unknown Location | 3 months, 1 week ago (9 months, 2 weeks after post)

This is retarted.

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