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I have trust issues with people and i just started dating this wonderful, optimistic guy for like a week or two.

He’s going to celebrate his 21′**** birthday in Las Vegas next week and I am not going to go with him. I am not afraid he’s going to go crazy over there, i mean go ahead it’s his birthday. but I’m afraid of what would happen when he comes back, would we still be dating or would he just ignore me after that?? He’s going for a week over there, and he usually doesn’t call me to talk or anything…SO PLEASE HELP!!

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Good ole boy offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 11 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

why are you not going to accompany him. it’s common for a b/f or g/f to attend the other’s b-day party. did he invite you?

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Mayor offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 166 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

Ask him where you stand.

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ju_babe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

If he comes back and doesn’t want you then he didn’t want you in the first place. It’s too early in the relationship to know how he really feels. Stop worring about things before they happen.

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aeroflychi offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

Yeah you’re right ju babe, i think i should stopp worrying hahah. i guess i shall go with the flow.

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ju_babe offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

;)

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RC offline Verified User (2 years, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Jacksonville, FL, US | 1 year ago (2 hours, 15 minutes after post)

trust takes years to earn as suspicion will destroy it in a day,,but life will be boring without trusting,,may your luck be better than mine in that regard

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aeroflychi offline Verified User (1 year, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 12 hours after post)

thank you RC =]

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