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My girlfriend is obsess with Hello Kitty!

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She started her collection one month ago when she saw on youtube these freaky girls with a full room of hello kitty. I swear it is freaky and looked like a sanrio store in their room!!! anyways, she started to buy things off ebay for 15 days straight and spend over 500 dollars and keep looking and looking for more.
The bad thing is she don’t receive half of the shipments yet and she keep looking for more! I dont want a room full of hello kitty like these freakies. She assure me that it wont be like that but i don’t think she can control her urges. I understand she likes it and its nothing bad about hello kitty but always need to be a limit. What can I do?

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jabens2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (0 minutes after post)

break up with her?? i dunno.. its funny anyway.

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My girlfriend is obsess with Hello Kitty!!!

She started her collection one month ago when she saw on youtube these freaky girls with a full room of hello kitty. I swear it is freaky and looked like a sanrio store in their room!!! anyways, she started to buy things off ebay for 15 days straight and spend over 500 dollars and keep looking and looking for more.
The bad thing is she don’t receive half of the shipments yet and she keep looking for more! I dont want a room full of hello kitty like these freakies. She assure me that it wont be like that but i don’t think she can control her urges. I understand she likes it and its nothing bad abou hello kitty but always need to be a limit. What can I do?

What'sInaName offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (4 minutes after post)

you said that you don’t want a room filled with…. How is your room involved? you live together? then you might have a voice in the room thing. as for buying stuff, I think she is in a “thing” right now, and it will pass, but she may be one who will obsess again (many times) in her life. Think about this.

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4 years, 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

We live together and she knows my point of view but really she doesn’t care. She is really obsess right now with it =(

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Ashley(: offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 4 years, 6 months ago (7 minutes after post)

AGH.
((:
Another Hello Kitty Obsession?
I have one of those…
My reason for collecting Hello Kitty is that they will become rare-valuable in time.
It’s cute and wonderful.

I have..
like 132347 toys.
2 different lamps.
curtains
pillows
bedspread
hair Straightener
hair curler
lip gloss
hair clips
hello kitty notepads
hello kitty stamps
hk sheets
hello kitty alarm clock
gum ball machine
hello kitty wallets (3)
hello kitty purses
hello kitty pens
hello kitty calculator
Hello Kitty Wallpaper
Posters
Stickers
key-chains
a hk shirt.

:D
Aha.
And I’m excluding about 7-8 more things.

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Anonymous #
4 years, 6 months ago (8 minutes after post)

Thanks for sharing…should i be happy for you or for my girlfriend that she’s not arrived to this point yet.

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jabens2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (11 minutes after post)

if i were u, i”d get obsessed with WOW and show her how FUN obsessions can be…. or! you disctact her with something else, in swedish it”s called 6. u should think about it

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What'sInaName offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (12 minutes after post)

lol. well even I have a hoodie, but it stops there. honestly, its so dang cute.
Again, she doesnt care what you think? Hmmmm you don’t sound like a being that I would brush off the opinions of too easily. (if you can even understand my statement it is a credit to your aformentioned intelligence)

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (13 minutes after post)

in america its called “ill show her”

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (15 minutes after post)

scriptease was that to me?!?!?!

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SheepCat offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 32 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (18 minutes after post)

maybe it’ll just fade away

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4 years, 6 months ago (24 minutes after post)

jabens2 wrote:
if i were u, i”d get obsessed with WOW and show her how FUN obsessions can be…. or! you disctact her with something else, in swedish it”s called 6. u should think about it

Problem is, she LOVED WOW!! She played for 3 years and finally quit for good. About the hello kitty, maybe it is true that it will fade in time. But until this happen, it is still coming things to our house and man it doesnt look like its going to stop any time soon.

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Ashley(: offline Verified User (5 years, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
US | 4 years, 6 months ago (24 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
Thanks for sharing…should i be happy for you or for my girlfriend that she’s not arrived to this point yet.

Tell her she needs help?
Try to help her.
Get obsessed with something and show her what’s she’s doing.
:P

Don’t let her become like me. D; xD

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An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (26 minutes after post)

you can also get hello-kitty lingerie, idea perhaps?

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What'sInaName offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (29 minutes after post)

jabens2 wrote:
if i were u, i”d get obsessed with WOW and show her how FUN obsessions can be…. or! you disctact her with something else, in swedish it”s called 6. u should think about it

Scriptease wrote:
in america its called “ill show her”

jabens2 wrote:
scriptease was that to me?!?!?!

I apologize, hun. its just I don’t want to suggest another obsession, even if feigned, to discourage hers.

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jabens2 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (31 minutes after post)

but you have to admit: it would be funny

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4 years, 6 months ago (33 minutes after post)

She was a wow addict before, it doesn’t work.

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What'sInaName offline Verified User (4 years, 11 months) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (38 minutes after post)

*Red Flag* are you able and willing to have a long term relationship with someone who is a serial obsessor?

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4 years, 6 months ago (40 minutes after post)

Well in her defense she got introduced to the game by her ex…she didn’t even know it existed before she met him. They played together and ultimately it drove them apart. She quit for me becuase she doesn’t want the same outcome with me, or to let any game get in between us.

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An Undisclosed Location | 4 years, 6 months ago (13 hours, 16 minutes after post)

I love hello kitty!! But i will never ever get a room full. I think that you just need to support her with this, if she really likes it and it makes her happy..I am sure in time she will buy less and less.. you know you cant control how she spends her money. She has to be the one to control that and know to save for her own sake and the sake of your future together. As for ideas..maybe advice to have it in moderation you know, once in a while..once a month ect…instead of 2 weeks in a row of buying and buying..im sure if you sit her down with a solution where she can save money and still get what she wants once in a while..it will be more motivation for her to tone it down.

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