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ok i am in a relationship with an older woman and have

been for the last three years she is 14 years older than me and im not really into it like i was. we got a house together and now i feel like im in a situation i dont want to be in now on top of that we are friends with this girl that we have knowen for like two years and lately me and her have been spending a lot of time together and im really getting to know her and i feel like im falling for her i want to tell her but dont want to take the chance of looseing her as a friend. I would like to just say life is too short go for it but i really care for her and the time i do spend with her i really enjoy and kinda look forward to seeing her as far as my girl goes i dont love her and i dont think she loves me i feel stuck please help!!!!!:)

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1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

tell her how you feel.

i mean life goals and plans can change.

get your own place.

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BizWiz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Honesty truly is the best policy. I was always told the easiest way to do anything is the wrong way, the right way is usually the hardest. I know it will be hard and maybe that is a good thing.

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

yeah i got that and thought about all that its not that easy

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

The only reason why you feel stuck, is because you’re limiting your own options.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 hours, 58 minutes after post)

I beg you to tell your girlfriend before you do anything behind her back with someone else (emotionally or physically). It is painful to be broken-up with, but it is shattering to be cheated on and misled.

Please tell her.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 hours, 42 minutes after post)

ofcourse…u must first discuss it with ur gf coz if u both have problems on ur nd…u need to first work that out….tell her what u feel about ur relation with her and then sort it out…if it doesn’t work out… then tell her abt ur feelings for the other girl and so… coz relation are complicated making or breaking them so quick only leaves u with just regrets!! i have experienced it personally :(

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