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any tips on how to get over guys?

like… the ones that live up the street from you and who are your best friend’s brother?

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forever84 offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

not the healthiest thing but ……..try and find a new guy to crush on…..it always works for me

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smize622 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

i’ve tried but none of them seem to catch my interest

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Nante offline Verified User (1 year, 5 months) Long Term User Shouts: 29 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Time.

I know how it sounds, but it’s true, this gu was just a crush, eventually you will find something alot more meaningful.

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

I agree with forever84, a new one always does the trick :)

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BizWiz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

If you can’t get over him, then maybe you shouldn’t. Maybe you should get him back.

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smize622 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Nante wrote:
Time.

I know how it sounds, but it’s true, this gu was just a crush, eventually you will find something alot more meaningful.

i know i will eventually find someone else but i wish time would speed up

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smize622 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

BizWiz8 wrote:
If you can’t get over him, then maybe you shouldn’t. Maybe you should get him back.

i kinda do want him back but i kinda don’t and it’s just confusing me. he was being a jerk to me for awhile and just randomly started yelling at me and cussing me out and then he wanted me back but i didn’t want that to happen again so i said no

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

BizWiz8 wrote:
If you can’t get over him, then maybe you shouldn’t. Maybe you should get him back.

ou must be a guy lol

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I want out offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

you

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BizWiz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

well don’t put yourself into an abusive situation and don’t get another crush (you will just hurt his feelings), and don’t get a one night stand (only works for one night). I would say just try to do something special for yourself. Take a vacation, buy yourself something nice, talk to friends, be a social butterfly. Anything to keep your mind off of it.

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BizWiz offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

libragirl12 wrote:
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lol. yeah. At least I am trying. How many guys can say that?

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smize622 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (17 minutes after post)

why can’t i get another crush? it’s not like he would know or care since he’s completely stopped talking to me. and don’t worry about the one night stand thing. i’m 15 lol. talking to friends helps but i can’t do that during school and my mind wanders easily

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1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

“any tips on how to get over guys?

like… the ones that live up the street from you and who are your best friend’s brother? “

Build a bridge that goes over their house and you will get over them everyday!

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smize622 offline Verified User (1 year, 8 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 3 months, 3 weeks ago (8 months, 3 weeks after post)

ok so i’m still not over this guy lol
we’ve fooled around a lot and then he would suddenly just stop talking to me. and then we would start up again. and last weekend we decided to be just friends. and then… well lets just say that didn’t happen. he seems a lot nicer and more into me now then he was before but i don’t want him to hurt me again

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monkburns offline Verified User (2 weeks, 5 days) Shouts: 0 #
An Unknown Location | 2 weeks, 4 days ago (12 months after post)

You are young, if it feels like its too much simply back out.

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