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Aww. . . I guess try and fall for someone else ;).
Hang out with friends, distract yourself.
ANd most importantly try to avoid seeing him again
just be straight and honist with him, its better to leave on a good note rather than let things spiral down the drain. go outside, somewhere, nutral but nice, talk and explain how you feel, then when its time to go home, go your own ways, dont cry, keep your head up high and remember the fun times youve had, and all the lessons youve lernt.
it may be hard, but you can do it
get yourself busy in some new hobbies =)
well umm i’m kinda in the same situation right now… the only that seems to work is keeping your distance, by that i mean spend time with your friends or whoever else other than him… kinda like the out of sight out of mind thing… also try talking it out with a couple of your close friends, trust me it helps tons… lol and umm just look around and try to find someone new. it’s hard i know but eventually you’ll get over it
i would tell him your feelings and say in a nice way you cant see him as much any more if not any time soon untill your over him, cause you need space to get him outya head! than go away after take deep breath and hang out with ya mates more! go out! dont get drunk for a while tho cause you may txt him summit daft and youll think about him! not good ….. go cinemas meals with mates dvd’s loads of stuff but dont contact him! may take months could take years sometims only weeks but one day you will see him as nutting more than a mate and you may wonder what ever you really saw in him!!
if you can help answer my question would be much appreachiated cause im well stuck on what to do lol!!!
Time. Not to discourage you, but it can take months, years, even lifetimes. For awhile everything you see, hear, smell, and taste might remind you of him.
Keep living your life and think about things that you really want to do. People you want to help. Volunteer, helping other people always makes you feel fortunte for what you do have (I’m reminding myself this as I type).
Be honest with him. That is the most important thing. He might agree with your decision. I have been through it. Sometimes its not as hard as you may think it is.
Did you tell him that you’re unsure of his feelings towards you?
You should talk it out before letting him go. Sometimes people go into a shell when they are very stressed about something else (like a job, family issues, life). They forget that their loved one needs attention still.
Just, before you go, make sure that you make it clear to him that you think he doesn’t care for you anymore..and see how he responds to that. Make sure your vibes and feelings you’re getting from him are correct.
Firstly, you do need to talk and explain clearly how you feel.
You need to be sure that you aren’t misinterpreting things. Maybe he does actually feel the same way just doesn’t SHOW it the same way ? If you’ve ever read Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus, you’ll know that this can very easily be the case.
If you ARE sure, then you have to tell yourself that your experiences, though they hurt, have actually been good for you. They have taught you more about yourself, your personal needs and how important it is to find a soul-mate that fulfills all of those needs.
The fact that you love him very much does not necessarily mean that you are right together. Learn to love yourself and your life as much as you love him.
The hardest lessons to bear are those that teach us most.
You still together then yes I agree talk to him and try to work out why you think he doesn’t feel the same as you. Remember girls are much more expressive with their feelings that most men ( sorry to generalise thats just my experience)
If you are no longer together then time, get through each day one at a time do not worry about the day after tomorrow or the one after that or after that in fact not even tomorrow just get through each day rally your friends round thats what they are for and just concertrate on having fun with them, do things you used to do before he came into your life
I dont noe….well if that is going to happen, tell him the truth, and is it worth of letting him go?U should ask him is it worth it of you loving him and being with him???Thats how I would deal with my problems.
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