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Me and my boyfriend

Well, were madly in love, its Just that before we had alot more in common like 99% of things, now its like 30%, We have a differnt taste in EVERYTHING, and well i still love him and he loves me, at the moment its a long distance relastionship so its pretty tuff stuff.
But the problem is we stilll say i love u like all the time.. but It dosnt feel real anymore? i dont feel like I wana say it, I LOVE him but what does this mean?

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jcd offline Verified User (2 years, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

Maybe you’re growing apart. It happens sometimes. Just because you love someone doesn’t mean that you should be in a relationship with them.

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kitt e offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

I wonder if it feels that way because it’s been long distance for a little while…sometimes it’s hard to hold on to that same feeling when you haven’t been close to each other enough. I wonder if when you guys are no longer long distance and you’re close again, if it would rekindle the old feelings. :)

How long do you think you guys will be long distance?

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LatinaLov offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

well,I Cant live witout him, its Just i guess cause we pass days witout talking for 2 days wich is alot for us, we spend 11 hours + talking the least, and were gona be long distance till june :(

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kitt e offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 35 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

Well June isn’t so bad :)!

Is there any way you guys could visit each other a couple times before June? How far apart are you?

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LatinaLov offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

I know we can do it lol, i just dont know i guess ive been stressed out with exams and stuff latley, i just need advice on long distance relastionships:P
and no we cant:( I could try but i cant make money fast enough to go visit him, were on diff sides of the world:P

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pluto_goddes offline Verified User (2 years, 10 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
Austin, TX, US | 1 year ago (9 hours, 16 minutes after post)

I was in a long distance relatoinship for two semesters and a summer. It was horrid, but we got through it. We should have taken a break, been able to see other people, still talk all the time, but just a break, but we didn’t. It was really tough, and unfair, because it ruined his frist year of college and my last year of high school. So if you’re unsure about your feelings, take a break, see how things end up. If they don’t turn up so well, then don’t tlak to eachother as much, talk to eachother every other day, see what happens, it might give you more to talk about and feel better abouthings.
if you need any more advice FEEL FREE to ask, trust me, i was there, it sucked, but we made it through it.

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An Unknown Location | 2 months, 2 weeks ago (9 months, 3 weeks after post)

me too, that’s happening to me now.. :’(

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