Love help: should i ask my ex how she feels about me or should i wait alot - Help.com

two weeks and she has a new bf? thats suspicious. are you sure she didn’t already have him?

Oh. dude. Run away. Far far away. Save yourself. She’s moved on, and she doesn’t know if she loves you? I think it’s safe to say its over. You have your dignity now. If you tell her you love her you’ll just complicate things further and probably end up getting hurt.

yea, im thinking that she already had this guy on the back burner while she was playing you…now the tables are turned and she is playing him. how long were you guys together? i know that lust and love and all those other crazy addictive things can get in the way of logical / perspective thinking, but maybe you should talk to the other guy and find out what she was doing before you guys broke up, i.e. were they involved? did she cheat on you? if so… def don’t take her back in a million years. you will get hurt again.

wow! ok… then it seems like the guy is more like a rebound. there may still be hope, but you must first find or figure out if she cheated on you with him. thats my first advice before doing anything else.

yeah this happened to me, the best thing to do is sever the ties and just don’t talk to her, think about her, or anything until you REALLY are over her. It gets easier i promise, my ex is now MADLY in love with his new girl, so regaurdless if its a rebound or not, she doesn’t want you back, she’s moved on.