friends help: heres the deal.

njpita2

heres the deal.

My best friend is a guy. He is with this girl who says shes 21 but she looks like shes in her 40’s easily 50’s. His friends thought she was his aunt at first. I just met her last night and she gave off a weird weird vibe. she wouldn’t look at me she wouldnt talk when i was in the room and didnt say anything just listened to everything. She is sleeping with my best friend. i looked at her facebook account and before she started hanging out with them, she didnt exist. She has no pictures of anyone but our friends and she doesnt seem to talk to or do anything with any one else. i thought it was weird that she basically didnt exist until she met them. Then two days after she met one of his friends. The police were watching his house all day and pulled him over for going through a yellow light and arrested him for weed. I just think its fishy. what do i do?

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (1 minute after post)

let him live his life and mind your own business.

njpita2 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (2 minutes after post)

are you too afraid to say that as yourself? hmmmmm

Angel-T 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

trust your instints. tell him to think with his brain and not his… He must just be sure what he is getting into… She does sound a bit dodgy to me…

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veg_head 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (8 minutes after post)

She is very bad news and probably working some kind of scam or con on your friend. If she really is in her 20s (which I wouldn’t believe without seeing id if she even has it) she must have done A LOT of drugs to look that old. She is dodging you and probably the rest of his friends because your BS meters work way better than your guy friends does if he’s falling for her. The police pulling him over and watching his house is a BAD BAD sign! Stay away from his place and him in general; you don’t want to be there when the you-know-what hits the fan.

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Chef 1 #
Portland, OR, US | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

quit being so judgmental of people based on there looks. not every one on this plaet has a facebook. jeez you people are so quick to judge.

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njpita2 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

haha i highly doubt that she is a serial killer! but i have told him this and he just thinks im jealous. hes been not only my best friend since pre k but also my brothers. we dont want anything bad to happen to him. he is part of our family now.

and chef - while her looks are a factor im not judging her solely based on her looks. Everything else caught my attention and her looks just added to it after. and she does have a facebook so your facebook argument is kinda pointless.

Chef 1 #
Portland, OR, US | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

then what did you mean “i looked at her facebook account and before she started hanging out with them, she didnt exist. ” ?

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Angel-T 0 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

At the end of the day, you can tell your friend till you blue in the face, but its still up to him to dump her…you might have to do some more investigating to get some incriminating evidence or proof. do you have the time and energy?

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njpita2 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (19 minutes after post)

she has a facebook. Her facebook is only pictures with our friends none of her own before they met. she met our other friends back in May. She just randomly showed up one day. She is obsessed with pictures. the night of parties she posts the pictures the same day. yet she has no pictures before that night. no friends before that night. She met MY friend a month or two ago. She has had facebook for a while now yet she still only knows THESE people.

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Chef 1 #
Portland, OR, US | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

she probably does not have many friends. I registered a face book when they first came out, and only logged back into it this week. not everyone uses social networking sites right away. she is probably just happy to share the pictures she has with her new friends involved.

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A Enamelled Like Us 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

Anonymous wrote:
let him live his life and mind your own business.

They said it a little harshly but they’re right. Let him make his own mistakes.

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njpita2 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 4 hours after post)

too bad i don’t smoke weed and too bad his friends set her up. they mentioned some drugs none of them had only to her and sure enough the cops came looking…explain that.

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veg_head 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 5 hours after post)

wow, that is freaky… maybe she is trying to isolate him? Maybe she is just crazy? You should try that again, see if the cops come around again.

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