Person help: what do you do when there nothing left to say? - Help.com

Have a new adventure. Pack a bag and hop on a train or take a bus out of town. Meet some new people. Make some new friends. You’ll have plenty to talk about when you get back.

I don’t want to sound rude but perhaps it means you talk too much.

talk to much is one thing i dont do. it not rude it a fair point.
i find it hard to talk to most people and even hard now to talk to people i no i just dont no what to say.

change the way you view things,

ask your self…
why do u find it hard to talk to people?
if it is boring … why?

may you just been around them too much
so go of on adventure like cliff said it a good idea.

change is good.

I feel that way a lot too, even around people I’m friendly with. I wish I had the answer! I’m also not good with sitting silently with people; even if everyone else is totally relaxed and just hanging out watching tv or something I’m uncomfortable and worried that everyone is bored and waiting until it won’t be rude to leave! I think it’s pretty natural to feel “spent” with some people. At least we don’t just say the same thing over and over again; i can think of some stories that my boyfriend has told me a dozen times. Oddly enough, he is the one person I feel comfortable sharing a silence with and he talks enough for both of us. ;)

im glad someone else is the same.

Scriptease wrote:
first; start doing stuff. get out everyday and have a little adventure. get a job.second; ask the person you are with a question tailored to them. Have you chosen a major yet? is your new job what you thought it would be? do you have brothers, do you get along with them? Ive never seen those Vans did you have them made? that ring is nice, is there a story behind it?dont ask “sooooo what you been doing”?

i do i have a job.

and thank you for the hint on the question tho

it a retail job, working with selling games, to be honest it really liad back so i do quite enjoy it. but it takes up my free time so for i work at the weekends and at college during the week

but my college is spilt in to too buildings, last year i was at one and now they moved me in to the other which is on the other side of town and i no one here, and it hard to talk to people as there all in groups and franky groups scared me.

yer they do.

i do get your point though that what you where getting on at.

the thing is at work it easy, for it secedon natuare to ask those question to people and easy to replay for i no bout the games,

but in a real life sitution, im not selling games to people.

and trying to talk to my friends i feel like a dum wit

but i will try and make tailored questions

are they ok to start the conversion with? how do i follow?

sorry i feel like a socail retard at the moment in time.

you simply walk away

DaNi♠HaTes♠You wrote:
you simply walk away

little harsh dont you think

though it is easy say than done

nah if i have nothing else to say and ran out of things ill just walk away