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Tell Me My Next Move.

I know this is long, but please read and help. I worked with this girl over the summer. She’s a great girl, and I asked her out. She said yeah so we’ve been on four dates: Two movies, a theme park, and dinner. Throughout the summer she’s been saying she was willing to give me a chance when I told her I liked her because she thought I was a wonderful person and she use to IM me all the time over the summer and smiled a lot. (Which I loved) Well, she went back to school at the end of August, and after our last date I text messaged her saying that I wish I got up the nerve to kiss her. She said she had great times and she wants to hangout again when she comes home. So we kept in touch, but she stopped answering my text messages and IMs in October. I knew something was bothering her, but I didn’t know what. So, she finally IMs me in November to say hey but I was away. I IMed her the next morning and told her I knew something was bothering her and I want to be there for her and that I’m never to busy to hear from her. Well, she blocked me because she appeared on one of my SNs but not the other. I saw in her profile RIP Grandma, which meant I knew what happened. So I sent her family flowers telling them I’m sorry for their loss, even though I never met her family. She IMed me saying thanks for the flowers that was really nice. So, where do I go from here? I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to IM her acting happy because of what happened, but I also don’t want to mention it. I think I am falling in love with this girl. Thanks for all of your help!

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Mez offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

Just be there to support her. Ask her if she needs anything. Also sorry, but I didn’t quite get it. Do you live near her. Are you able to go and see her?

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

Be patient! After what has happend, she needs time to sort all her emotions out. I’m sure she will get in touch with you when the time is right. She may need, and giving moral support to the family members. Her appreciation for the flowers you sent, (which was a class act on your part), won’t be forgotten with her I’m sure. Just give her the time she needs right now, and hope for the best. I will keep my fingers crossed for the outcome your seeking. All the best to you and good luck :)

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1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

Thanks a lot! So you think I shouldn’t IM her, wait for her to IM me or text me?

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

Give it a few more days….

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Anonymous #
1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

i guess i’ll wait for her to IM me

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seas light offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (52 minutes after post)

That’s a good idea. You don’t want to come off being needy. I’m sure your patience will pay off in the end. Best of luck :)

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freespirit_money offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 5 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (4 hours, 29 minutes after post)

yup wait for her…but make urself busy with things as well….constantly thinkin about her mite block ur personality… which im experiencing rite now…so take my word on this….world is not too small !!!

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