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They promised.

At the beginning of April. My mom and siblings and I moved out of my step-dad’s house.

Well, at the beginning of June we moved back in and they promised things would be better.

But now the fighting, slamming doors, yellling is all back..

It’s just heartbreaking.

I don’t want to live like this.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 minute after post)

Hm, seems the promise is not being kept, perhaps it is time to leave once more.

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (5 minutes after post)

But.. My mom loves him…

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (7 minutes after post)

*!MaryChan!* wrote:
But.. My mom loves him…

She left once. He lied. Why bother for round two?

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (10 minutes after post)

They both lied.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

And which causes the fights most often, how are they separate?

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (11 minutes after post)

What do you mean by that? “how are they separate”

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

Does this conflict and fighting caused when they interact, when they are not together, do they occur.

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (13 minutes after post)

Sometimes when they aren’t sometimes when they are, the things they do and don’t do.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

So it goes further then just the two of them?

Your siblings affect it?

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (14 minutes after post)

they sound like really confused people.
have you tried stopping the fighting?

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

FIGHT THE POWAH wrote:
they sound like really confused people.have you tried stopping the fighting?

No, when I try to say something they say they’re having a “Discussion”

Discussion my butt….

nope, they don’t affect it Ikari

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

*!MaryChan!* wrote:

FIGHT THE POWAH wrote:
they sound like really confused people.have you tried stopping the fighting?
No, when I try to say something they say they’re having a “Discussion” Discussion my butt….nope, they don’t affect it Ikari

Seems somewhat like a toxic relationship.

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (16 minutes after post)

hm.
sometimes my parents say that to, i just try to ignore them, it does not stay for long for me.
can you ignore it too?

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

I’ve been trying to ignore it.. but as soon I go upstairs it’s like this really stressful tense aura in the room.. it’s uncomfortable.

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (27 minutes after post)

*!MaryChan!* wrote:
I’ve been trying to ignore it.. but as soon I go upstairs it’s like this really stressful tense aura in the room.. it’s uncomfortable.

Let them fight, get into your own zone, find peace through music or film…

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (28 minutes after post)

Trying..

I think I might reread the twilight series actually :P

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

*!MaryChan!* wrote:
Trying.. I think I might reread the twilight series actually :P

*Eyebrow twitches*

Whatever makes you happy…

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (29 minutes after post)

Commander Ikari wrote:

*!MaryChan!* wrote:
Trying.. I think I might reread the twilight series actually :P
*Eyebrow twitches*Whatever makes you happy…

What is so bad about the Twilight series?

Yes, I get really into the books.

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He Knows My Name offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (35 minutes after post)

nothing’s bad about Twilight. read it. and let Edward Cullen sweep you away from your sadness. :P

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (55 minutes after post)

Lost! wrote:
nothing’s bad about Twilight. read it. and let Edward Cullen sweep you away from your sadness. :P

lol I’ve read them a million timess….

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He Knows My Name offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (56 minutes after post)

lol. read it again. and be happy. :D

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (56 minutes after post)

i read a chapter of the one with the apple on the cover.
so- so.
sounded like a bad fanfic to me.
i see why people like them, but i don’t

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (57 minutes after post)

lol~

That would be the first book, Twilight.

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

oh, k

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

man, my mom wants to go see the movies.
you can dress like me and take my place if you want. XP

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*!MaryChan!* offline Verified User (2 years, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 2 #
Denver, CO, US | 1 year ago (1 hour, 8 minutes after post)

I want to seee itttt!

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 9 minutes after post)

er, how many got released in theaters?
i am not going…. i just… came down with a cough! yea!
*cough cough*

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Commander Ikari offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 78 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 16 minutes after post)

FIGHT THE POWAH wrote:
man, my mom wants to go see the movies.
you can dress like me and take my place if you want. XP

Poor man.

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He Knows My Name offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

i want to see it too… :P

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He Knows My Name offline Verified User (1 year, 3 months) Long Term User Shouts: 14 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 17 minutes after post)

i think the correct word is watch.

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THE INTERNET offline Verified User (1 year, 7 months) Long Term User Shouts: 9 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 21 minutes after post)

nah, works both ways

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