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How to Tell Someone you like them in a note

Okay so here’s the deal, on monday morning I will be giving a note to my crush telling him that I like him, well my friend will be giving him my letter. But I need help because i’ve never actually done this before,,, I don’t really know what to write in my note that doesn’t make me sound like an idiot so please if anybody can give me a few ideas on what to write, and if any guys here that can give me an input on how they prefer a girl to tell them how they feel thanks!

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liv_192 offline Verified User (1 year) Long Term User Shouts: 6 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (6 minutes after post)

Don’t write a note!!

Look at it this way: If your friend gives him that note and he reads it and doesn’t feel the same way, he’s gonna feel weird about going up to you and talking to you about what you wrote, in fact he probably won’t go and talk to you…which is bad for you because you’ll be left wondering does he likes me or not?? Plus he’ll probably tell all his friends too…boys can be boys!

I say just get him alone if possible and tell him how you feel, and even if you do get rejected, you’ll know! It is a bloody scary thing to do, but say that to him if you like, and then he’ll understand! plus you can read body language and stuff to figure out how it’s going!

Well…thats my opinion anyway…some other people might tell you what to write :P

LG x

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1 year ago (25 minutes after post)

Don’t give him a note. Figure out ways to make him notice you. If he doesn’t then he’s not interested. If I guy really wants you he’ll eventually talk to you.

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Paranoid Android offline Verified User (1 year, 4 months) Long Term User Shouts: 3 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 hour, 5 minutes after post)

Tell him in person, no offense but notes are immature.

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Florimouse offline Verified User (1 year, 9 months) Long Term User Shouts: 25 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (22 hours, 39 minutes after post)

“Dear [Person’s Name],

I like you. You’re peachy.

Signed,

fgfgfgfgfgfgfg

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seah1 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (1 day, 10 hours after post)

Is there really a need for you to do that?

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laurengokaboom offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 days, 22 hours after post)

this is pointless!!

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naomidestin offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 12 months ago (1 week, 3 days after post)

dont write a ******* note!!!!!!!!! GOD

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anonymous offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 10 months, 2 weeks ago (1 month, 3 weeks after post)

some guys (me included) prefer if you just tell us instead of writing a note ,
because even if we don’t like you back,we respect the fact that you had the guts to tell us .

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sugar-10 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 9 months, 4 weeks ago (2 months, 1 week after post)

hun i am going through the same thing but i think i may just tell him but he is a good friend of mine and i dont want to rewen that soo i dont no i AM so CONFUSED!!

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sweettalk6 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

I don’t think you should write a note because its really childish and even if your really scared about giving or talking to the person you should first become friends like if one of your friends knows the boy you like tell him or her to introduce you to the person not like go to him and say hi this is blahh blahh and blah blah no.tell your friend to start off with the conversation and the introudce her.give eye contact and be you.

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seah1 offline Verified User (1 year, 1 month) Long Term User Shouts: 1 #
An Unknown Location | 8 months, 4 weeks ago (3 months, 1 week after post)

just be honest….tell them that you like them in simple language!

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anvalquin97 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

in youre note maybe you should but this i will write it right now o.k (name of crush) i have had acrush on you for a long time and i know alot of girls like you so i dont want to be like those other girls but i relly like you and now the big question is do you like me but be careful if hes one of those guys that tells his freinds everything than just sat it to his face just come out and say (guys name of crush)i like and if you dont like than i under stand and walk away.

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anvalquin97 offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 7 months, 2 weeks ago (4 months, 2 weeks after post)

just come out and say it and have faith maybe he feels the same way and if he doesnt dont start to cry about it youre strong and loyall girl dont let a guy make you cry he might not even be as nice as you think

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john_smith offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 6 months, 1 week ago (6 months after post)

my friend wrote me a note telling me he was inlove with me… we dont talk anymore.

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adsfasdfas offline Unverified User #
An Unknown Location | 2 months, 1 week ago (9 months, 3 weeks after post)

John smith are you a boy or girl

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