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is cuting all contact with your ex really help someone get over them ?

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Sherooo 7 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (3 minutes after post)

yes.

it works.

but only if you’ve talked through everything with them

lock90 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (9 minutes after post)

alright i guess its time for me to remove her i guess since i have nothing more to say to her

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (12 minutes after post)

yes. it does for me.

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lock90 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (15 minutes after post)

question once i remove her from myspace my phone etc… what do i do when i see her in my classes i only see her twice a week for about 4 hours how or what am i suppose to do.

i dont no what to do because im lost and need of some guidance

thank you for your advice and opinions

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (18 minutes after post)

um, i think a friendly smile and hello would be good. or just wave and go. don’t linger too long around her.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

It is my experience, from an 8 year relationship, that cutting contact too soon can be emotionally devastating. Instead I try to seperate myself emotionally and physically. Sometimes an update every few months can be nice. You really have to have the self-control and independence to handle the situation with maturity, but at least you don’t lose that friendship.

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lock90 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (20 minutes after post)

we sit next to each other should i just pretend everything is ok and dont show her any emotion that i still care for her

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lock90 2 #
An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (22 minutes after post)

its been two weeks and she is already posting pics of her new bf on her myspace so i guess i just dont wana see it anymore and maybe cutting contact will finnaly help me move on

she met the guy online and she drove 2 hours to go visit him

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (24 minutes after post)

Working for me right now… =).

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An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (26 minutes after post)

start going out again and meet other people to help you move on.

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southern_comfort 6 #
An Undisclosed Location | 1 year ago (38 minutes after post)

lock90 wrote:
its been two weeks and she is already posting pics of her new bf on her myspace so i guess i just dont wana see it anymore and maybe cutting contact will finnaly help me move on

she met the guy online and she drove 2 hours to go visit him

Sounds to me like she’s successfully moved on. You haven’t. Quit stalking her and checking her Myspace page. It will only make things worse for you. She could care a less.

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An Unknown Location | 1 year ago (5 days, 9 hours after post)

Well I can tell you from my past relationship 4 1/2 years that it was emotionally devastating for me when my ex just cut the ties all of a sudden .He did not even talk to me . He just cut ties all together . It hurt me so badly . Cause he would not even talk to me at all or have anything to do with me . And that hurt me so badly. Basically acted as if he didnt know me at all . But I think my situation was differant though. But I did get to hear about his girlfriends from others and that hurt.. but now I know why he did all that he thought i deserved someone better than him .

Hope this helps although i believe our situations differant though

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